While traveling abroad there will be two types of girls you would be engaged with. 1. Gringos (which is anyone who is not from the country your visiting,) 2. Local woman who actually live in the country. Gringo woman along with the locals are looking for something they are not used  to and that’s your confidence, style, taste, and of course your money if that’s what you have to offer. Myself personally, I’m not the kind of Pick Up Artist who will offer a woman some money to show me a good time. However, what I would do is use my wealth along with my knowledge of the game to spark strong curiosity of what I’m all about which usually lead to them coming home with me. In this post I will describe the necessary tools to help you get laid while your enjoying your great vacation in South America or any other Latin American country.

Local woman in Latin America loves and adores a man who speaks the English language. English to them represents power, prestige, and perhaps wealth because clearly your in their country. Having this in mind, it is up to you to have a basic foundation of their language to engage them. Not saying you have to be completely fluent, but enough to introduce yourself, ask her name, and how you can get in touch with her. After you established yourself, ask her if she understand a few words in English. Of course the average chick is going to say no, or they may understand a few words which could put you in the drivers seat for success depending on how you work your cards. After your conversation depending on where you are, (club, bar, or street) you should ask for her number depending on her proficiency in English, or if she’s not, ask what she’s doing that very night so you can get the ball rolling. While meeting up with your local lady, I strongly recommend meeting at a dance club because the language barrier could be to much if your going out for a regular drink at the bar. Once your at the dance club, make sure you can impress her enough with your dance moves. After a few dances, with enough eye contact, you should find yourself making out and possibly taking her home if your assertive enough.

Gringo woman often travel in packs of 2’s 3’s or sometimes solo. They usually come from Europe, Australia, and once and a while the United States. These ladies can be found at hostels, hotels, and once and a while the party your attending. If you want want to know for sure where the gringos going to hangout for the night, I recommend finding a popular hostel and see where people are going.  The advantage of getting to know gringos are they most likely speak English. This can be extremely easy on your part if your trying to score an easy home-run. Although the two of you may be united in language, you still have to go through the process of using the game to get what you want. While pursing the gringo, I strongly recommend going out as a group to a bar or a dance floor filled party so you can put yourself in a winning position. While in the bar or club, make sure your assertive, not creepy, and acting as if your really intrested in what she has to say and before you know it, you should be making out with your new gringo lady. Don’t stop with just a simple make out, keep your hands and mind moving, and before you know it, you will be at some hotel banging it out.

Yours truly

Hajji

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It’s always good to have friends in the entertainment business but I believe that the strategy of trying to become good friends with the bouncer at the front door is overdone/over hype. The thing is most guys (and girls) think that the guy outside checking ID or holding up the ropes has the power. He doesn’t. He’s just the first line of defense. Hell I’ve had times in the past where the door bouncer has explicitly told me that I would not be let in a club only to be overruled by someone who has more power than him. If you go to a club often enough the bouncer will eventually know you and let you in without a hassle but don’t waste time when you’re new to a venue trying to be best buddies with the guy at the door.

The Guy with the Clipboard is your friend
The guy with the clipboard is the guy that you want to befriend. Depending on the size of the venue he is either a low or mid level promoter that actually gets paid from the number of people inside the club. Naturally his incentives to let his regulars in quickly and without hassle are in line (no pun intended) with yours of getting into the club. This is the guy that you want to befriend. Use the following questions to get him to identify you as a possible long term ‘customer’ party go-er.
•    Hey man, what promotion company is throwing this party
•    How often do you guys throw the party here
•    I was here with some girls last week and brought my friends this week, you guys throw great parties man
•    Where else do you guys promote
•    Do you guys have a guestlist? Where can I  sign up?
•    I’m throwing a party in a month or two for my friend’s bday, do you have a card, I’m thinking about getting bottle service
•    Do you have a myspace or facebook where I can hear about your upcoming events
•    Do you guys have a mailing list when you send out information about your upcoming events

To a promoter all these things are music to their ears. Once a promoter gets to know that you’re down to come, party, and have a good time, they’ll be jumping to insure that and your friends get into the club in a swift manner.

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Hey everyone, Hajji here.

Just wanted you to know that we haven’t forgotten about you! I’m actually in South America right now taking some time to explore this wonderful continent and its wonders. I don’t know if i’ll have a chance to post while I’m down here, but I’m sure Escobar will post and update the blog while I’m gone.

Anyway, see you all in 2010!

-Hajji

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House parties are by far the easiest places to score with chicks. Because these environments are filled with people that know one another, opening up a set is easy. Keep in mind that when you do attempt to approach a girl, make sure your attitude, demeanor, and posture are ‘one’. This element is important because there tends to be tight spaces to operate in depending on the size of the house. If these elements are not in place, it will be very easy for a lady to overlook you, and talk to the next guy that have the amazing personality.

Bare in mind that woman loved to be talked to in house parties. Ugly or very beautiful they want to be seen with somebody talking to them. Here’s a scenario that happened last weekend at a college party I was at-

PUK- For some reason I really love your shoes, do you mind if I ask where you got them?

Chick- I got them at ____________. And guess what, I only got them for $20.

PUK- Wow are you serious! I guess I know what to get my mom for her birthday this Saturday. My name is Hajji by the way whats yours?

Chick- My name is mellisa.

PUK- I really admire a woman with good taste.

Chick- Thank you

Puk- So how do you like to spend your free time?

Chick- I like to read, drink coffee, and once and a while party.

PUK- What a coincidence, I do as well. How about we exchange numbers so I can buy you my favorite blended coffee.

Chick- No problem.

-Hajji

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This might sound funny, especially coming from another guy but spend some time looking at yourself in the mirror. Those of you who have had girlfriends in the past know that Girls spend hours upon hours fussing over every little detail before they go out. Why? Because first impressions count and anytime you’re in public, especially in a super social setting like a club or bar you want to put your best self forward. That said, we’re not advocating spending half the evening getting ready but do spend some time doing a quick rundown of basic things you should have covered.

• Hair – There’s a big difference between bed hair and the tussled I don’t care look. Know the difference.
• Facial Hair  – Have a look in mind – if you’re going for that clean look, make sure you’re clean shaven completely, if you’re looking for that stubble  look, make sure it fits, if you’re going for that I don’t care slacker look, at least make sure it’s a clean looking sloppy. Lazy never looks good. Figure out what your look is and make sure
• Skin – Address any glaring issues
• Clothes – No obvious wrinkles or embarrassing stains
• Breath– If you need me to tell you your teeth should be clean and breathe fresh then here we go

That’s it! It shouldn’t take more 2 minutes to do all that. It’s crazy how many guys don’t do a basic check before going out. The goal of the mirror look isn’t to have you looking like a GQ model or some Hollywood actor. It’s to reinforce the fact to yourself that you’re putting your best self forward. Just the fact that you’ve done the basic check will help you feel confident in whom you are and things you do and how you act.

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When women go out with their friends, they tend to create this illusion that their out to protect one another interest which means doing everything they can to cock-block on a guy that tries to dance with their friends. Some of the reasons why they choose to cock-block could be because for one, they are insecure of themselves, or use the classic line that “my friend has a boyfriend, therefore, you should back up and allow them to dance amongst themselves even though they are in a environment where there are several single people trying to dance. Usually this is enough for a guy to want to back away, and maybe reevaluate his options for the night. However, with the advice I offer you in this blog, you should be able to utilize the friends of females to get to the woman you want.

Women tend to feel comfortable when a confident guy penetrate their circle. If you approach a group of girls with your target set on a female, and you come of as somewhat timid, it would enable the group to seal you off because “they came to dance amongst themselves”. Once you have your sites on the lady, I would open up a small conversation with the least attractive girl in the group, and would make her feel as special as possible to earn some cheap brownie points within the group. After establishing yourself within the circle of friends, I’ll dance with the girl I initially opened with, and dance 1 song with her.
After the song is over, I’ll walk to the bar to grab a drink, which will give the ladies a short time to talk about how “cute he is” before coming back a bit more relaxed, and target the woman you initially had your eye on, and bring on that A game. Strong word of advice, as we stressed time and time again, use humor to loosen her up so she’ll loosen you up where it counts.
Good Luck!

-Hajji

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Yes and no. Here’s why, first the ‘bad news’. Yes, definitely helps to know how to dance. According to many women there is a perception that the way a guy dances is an extension of the way a guy is in bed. That said whether that perception is true or not does not matter when it comes down to it.

The good news is that the most important thing when you’re dancing at a nightclub is not sex directly. Nope, its whether or not you’re being perceived as someone who is fun to be around. The most attractive guy in a club is the guy who is just out there having a good time, with a positive attitude. You’ll notice that when you dance to music that you know and enjoy people, girls in particular notice that and appreciate your confidence and comfort in the situation.

Bottom-line, I’ll say that knowing how to dance or at least, staying on rhythm is important, but if you have a time dancing to the latest moves I will say, at least having positive outlook and attitude is a huge difference maker and will separate yourself from the other guys in the club that fight huge dancing demons.

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To sum it up in one word, humor. I’m a huge fan of opening up the conversation with humor while dancing because bringing humor into the situation is a complete, total icebreaker to awkwardness you might have between yourself and your target. When you’re just dancing things can get awkward because a lot of times if you dance with somebody and you really don’t have much to talk about it can be kind of awkward for a second, you know, like “OK, where do we go now?” like “what’s next?”.

However if you’re kind of funny and you say a few jokes then your target will soften up, put her shield down and enjoy your company and more importantly enjoy you as an individual. The best part about that is that you don’t have to be the funniest guy in the world, you can use a lot of humor that deals with environment that you’re in. For instance you can point to someone and say something like, “Hey, look at that guy, he really know how to move right?” pointing at someone dancing kind of awkwardly or you can slightly neg your target by saying someting like “yeah girl, you got more moves than what I expected, you can teach me a thing or two” because everyone is self conscious about how they dance.

Using humor can soften up the situation to a state where you can start talking to her and engaging her with more standard game. Using humor while dancing makes it a lot easier to esclate a verbal conversation after you move her off the dance floor.

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The Silent Opener

So now that you have preserved as much social value as you can by not breaking any of the cardinal rules of dance floor game what’s next? The opener. The Silent Opener would probably be more accurately described as the the nonverbal opener because it relies exclusively on nonverbal cues to communicate dominance and assertiveness.

There are two forms of silent openers that my colleagues and I perform on the dance floor; ‘the bait and reel’ and ‘the pound.’

Bait and reel
The bait and reel is the simplest form of dance floor opener, in fact, it is the method you are most likely to see so-call natural performing in a club. You’ve seen it before, a totally random guy walking right up to a girl and initiating a dance without saying a single word. What seems like magic is no more than several intentional actions that project dominance and assertiveness to a players target.

• The Bait
  Described before the bait involves inciting eye contact with a target in a way which seems serendipitous. Glance slight to the left or the right of your target to try to catch a glance, once she’s bitten the bait, turn your head to her and acknowledge her glance.

• The Approach
  Smile warmly, lock eye contact and approach with purpose. Try to walk in the straightest line possible towards her. Do not smile like a creep or a kid being tickled, but instead give the impression that you’re mildly amused by her being entranced by you. The amazing thing about this is that as long as eye contact is locked before you start moving, you’ll be able to approach from any distance. Optimum is about 10 to 15 feet, but I’ve walked longer distances without eye contact being loss.

• The Initiation
  On your approach take mental note of where her hands are. Once you’re one to one and a half feet away from her, take her hand lift it up and spin her around. The entire process is so alpha she’ll be thinking more about how not to mess it up than about who you are and why she shouldn’t dance with you.

Pound and Spin
Although this move is a bit gimmicky it can be used in situations where you do not have enough social proof to do a standard approach or with very good looking girls or sets that otherwise would blow out a direct approach. In situations where my social proof has been reset or not as high as I would like for whatever reason, I use the Pound and Spin to reestablish myself. This method is especially good at breaking open dance circles of girls.

• The Approach
  Walk up to the set with high energy and confidence and move directly to your target. Lean over and ‘confide’ in a person who is not your target to ‘watch this’

• The Initiation
  Stick your fist out like you are about to give some props and make eye contact with your target. Wait expectantly for her to put two and two together. She’ll usually slowly perform the prop action without any additional goading or prompting on your part. After the prop action is taken, maintain eye contact as you hold her hand and elevate it to the ceiling. After both of your hands are above her head, spin her around and commence dancing. Like the direct approach above, the entire motion should be smooth, and when performed properly comes off as super alpha.

These two initiation openers are guaranteed to open any set 90-97 percent of the time if performed correctly. One thing I’d add is that when you are doing either you need to divorce your self from the result and simply be in the moment. Even if you got shot down moments ago clear all that from you mind and think about presenting positive energy. Personally, the only times these openers work is when I have self doubt or apprehensions about opening. When I separate myself from the end result and focus on putting a positive confident approach out there positive results follow.

Next Post- Dance Game – Part 3 – Escalation

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Have you ever approached a woman and she immediately swatted you away which made you feel smaller then an ant? If you are a person that pursues woman, chances are you’ve experienced some form of rejection. Being rejected isn’t the best feeling in the world considering that the woman you approached was someone you could see yourself with. Therefore, my colleagues and I have developed a powerful tool which will help you combat rejection which plagues many of us.

It is my belief that if a person is equipped with the right tools to combat rejection, you will then be able to shift that negitive energy into positive energy which in return can make them feel stupid. According to the woman I’ve encountered the typical responses I’ve received when woman attempted to reject me was; “I’m having a bad day”, “I have a boyfriend,” “I’m gay,” ” I’m just with my ladies trying to have a good time.”

These canned rejections are so prevalent in our society that they come second nature to woman because we us meaning the males never have the rebuttles to make them feel silly at their own game. Here is one of many solutions we subscribe to at pickup kings. First and foremost, when we approach woman, we do not come off as pick-up artist which most ladies hate because a lot of them have no originality. Therefore, when we approach the ladies, we come off as men who is truly interested in conversating or asking a question which will reduce the chances of them being rude. Here is a sample dialoge to what I am suggesting looks like and how I make rebuttal’s to their innital attitudes:

PUK: Excuse me, I am looking to find building _______ do you know if you can direct me to that area?

Lady: I’m sorry, I have a boyfriend.

PUK: Wow that is pretty nice to know. However, that wasn’t the information I was looking for. I was wondering if you knew how I can find this building.

Lady: Oh I’m sorry. There are a lot of guys out there that like to use game thinking it would work on me.

PUK: (smiling) well I can see your a tough walnut to crack. Hopefully you don’t preform no martial arts on me or anything because I have a promising future.

Lady: (laughing) so do you you usually come up and ask girls questions like this all the time? is that apart of your game?

PUK: As you can tell I don’t have a lick of game. What’s wrong with a gentleman asking a question? Hopefully I don’t get struck by lighting or anything by asking a question.

Lady: You are a funny guy

PUK: Thanks. I find your innitial response a little funny as well. You seem really nice how about we have some coffee sometime?

Lady: See I was right. (smiling). You are a pick up guy huh?

PUK: Not at all. I just like your personality. You have every right to say no. And plus, wouldn’t you want to have a friend like myself that can keep you smiling all the time making you feel like a million bucks?

Lady: Sure why not. Hopefully your not some crazy psycho or something.

PUK: Last time I checked I was pretty sane.

Lady: Well here is my number###-###-####

PUK: Cool. I guess I will call you soon. Nice meeting you

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