Picking up ladies at a cafe can be very easy if you do not come off as awkward. What I mean by coming across as awkward is looking at her weird, than saying hello without a strong follow-up. Or starring at her for a very long time before you eventually have enough courage to introduce yourself which can also be awkward if you been starring at her for a very long time. The key in this situation is when you see a lady you like, you quickly Strategize a good way to capture her attention without looking at her. This process should take no longer than 45 seconds to a minute. Once you figured out your strategy, make sure you make your presence is felt by being confident, making eye contact, and flashing an occasional smile. Below will be a few proven strategies that I’ve used to capture ladies attention at coffee shops.

- That looks like a pretty interesting book, I believe I’ve  read something similar to this while I was in college. My name is Hajji by the way. What’s yours?

- I must say that I really love your makeup. Do you do it yourself or you got it done professionally? My name is Hajji and you?

- You look like a really smart girl that loves to read a good book. Do you have any good recomendations on a good read? My name is hajji.

It is extremely important that after you make contact, you keep the conversation going by staying as interesting as possible. Because this is a cafe type setting, you don’t want to conversate for to long unless she insists.

Good luck players!

-Hajji

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