The Pickup Kings

I witnessed the effects of something that almost defied logic this weekend- The reverse cockblock.

I’m sure all of us have been in a position where someone or something gets in the way of our gaming. It could be a mother hen, jealous girlfriend, or a crappy DJ. Collectively, these obstacles are called cock blocks and they serve to hinder game by throwing sarcastic remarks, setting the wrong tone, or otherwise throw you off your game.

But what if a statement perceived as cockblock served to build more attraction? Enter the reverse cockblock.

Here’s how it works

PUA and his wing opens a set and PUA isolates his target, while his wing rolls off. PUA builds decent rapport and excuses himself (to the bathroom, to make a call, buy a drink whatever, it doesn’t matter). PUA’s Wing then swoops in and drops the following dialog:

Wing: Hey what’s up, i see you and person A are getting along (to target)
Target: Yeah, he’s cool
Wing: Well, i don’t mean to hate or anything, don’t get your hopes up, he talks to a lot of girls, and even if he gets your phone number he probably won’t call.
Target: (shocked): ook
Wing: Yeah, I’m a nice guy and you seem like you’re really into him so I’m just letting you know
Target: uhh, ok, thanks
Wing: Anyway I gotta bounce

What’s key in the reverse cock block is the reason for disqualification. In order to work, the PUA needs to be disqualified because of his ability to get and charm girls. When the interaction resumes the PUA should not direct address what the wing said unless the target brings it up. If she doesn’t bring it up and continues the dialog, it’s money, she’ll be flattered that the PUA is continuing to talk to her despite his ‘player’ reputation. Continue to game and increase attraction and close.

If she does bring it up, she’s showing insecurity and it’s a great time to qualify her. Address it head on, say something to the effect of “Yes, I do chat with a lot of girls, but there was something special about you that makes me want to talk to YOU tonight instead of anyone else here.” Move on and continue to game.

This is a FIELD TESTED technique, but it’s still in the midst of testing this at different points in the game cycle. I’ve seen this done Modified where it’s performed at the end of a cycle after the PUA #closes. This allows to have your wing increase her surprise/receptiveness when the PUA actually calls her the next day.

    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?

Imagine yourself in a fast food restaurant at 2:30a.m after a fun night at the club. While you’re in line you look to your left and notice a group of attractive ladies laughing and joking around. What do you do? In this segment, I will give you the tools you need to be able to open a power set on a group of women which has been tested and proven successful. There are three things that is required in order to be successful. A sense of personality, a simple smile, and a touch of purpose.

After a long night at this hot night club in San Francisco, my friends and I had elected to go to Jack in the Box for some tacos and shakes until I noticed this group of hot ladies sitting down. Upon noticing their presence, I had searched deep down inside my psyche for the best approach to get their attention and finally it came to me. I noticed one of them was wearing a little wedding cap on her head so I knew it was some sort of ladies bachelorette night. So I approached the group with a big smile and wished the wedding girl good luck with her marriage, then proceeded with the group. The conversation took place like this:

PUK: Congratulations with finding your parter for life.

Engaged lady: Thanks! You’re such a sweet heart.

Puk: No worries, I have to wish you luck because I always wanted to find myself a position where I can marry someone I love and trust.

EL: I’m pretty sure you will. You have to be patient

PUK: Well I’m not in too much in a rush, (smile) but thanks.

PUK: So is their any other ladies getting married?

Group of ladies: Nope, Were single. Were not lucky as _____.

PUK: I see, well my friends over there and I are all single and ready to mingle so if any of you ladies are lucky, maybe we’ll take you out for coffee or something to get things warmed up.

I then proceeded to pipeline my fellas over and focused my attention on the one I thought was cute while my buddies did what they do best. Opening up on big sets is not only beneficial for yourself, but it also is beneficial for the team. There are several ways to open up on big sets, but you have a little creativity and courage. In addition, it is pretty exciting to know how people respond to your jokes and smiles. Stay tuned because we will focus more on the power ice breaker of the group.

~Hajji

When approaching groups of woman, we all have a history of a terrible wingman that crashed the whole mission by either overplaying his role or not playing it correctly which results in no ass. In this segment, I will offer three examples of the perfect wingman which will give you the necessary tools to infiltrating that group of woman to get the results your looking for.

1. Your in a bar in you noticed 3 girls talking and out of those 3 girls, only one is cute. You as the hitman have to instruct the wingman to follow your directions so you guys can be a united force if the plan is to converse with the whole group. The role of the wingman in this situation is to isolate the two girls away from the hitman’s target, and keep them entertained by talking about random shit which will keep them away from their friend. If you are unable to seperate the two girls from the rest of the pack, follow the conversate that is given by the hitman, and not change that course because that will show inconsistency.

2. Your at a bookstore and you noticed two girls and a guy talking. The role of the wingman in this situation is to be the “lab rat” by joining the conversation and taking the guy away from the two girls by conversing with him over random shit. Once the hitman see an open road, he will entertain the two girls and try to conquere which ever one he wants.

3. Your in a cafe in you notice a mother and her beautiful daughter is having a wonderful conversation. The role of the hitman and the wing should huddle up and think of a perfect soulution to decieve the two by either having some kind of history with the girl to take the mother off guard. Perhaps asking the girl if she went to a particular middle school or high school. This situation can be a bit dangerous but you will be surprised how cool moms can be sometime when it comes to guys approaching their daughters.

-Hajji