Approaching random woman is like approaching job employers. Their the same in the sense that your looking for something right? You wouldn’t go into a job interview wearing a shirt that says “single and loving it right? Instead you will wear something appropriate that you feel might give you a shot at working for the company. These same rules apply when talking to woman. You have to approach them dressed to impressed so when you leave that conversation, she can at lease admire your sense of style.

Believe it or not when females talk to one another, they ask plenty of questions. Depending on the girl your pursuing, she would most likely ask her friend questions about your looks, style, and confidence. Because clothes are indicators of all above, I strongly recommend you wear clothes that reflect a good sense of style, because it will let them know your confident about your style.

There are men out there who believes that you can get all the girls you want by using universal game. Trust me, this is completely false. For each group of woman, ethnically speaking, you have to have a certain kind of appeal to reach to them. In the case of the Latina, I will outline my great formula that should get you the results I have gotten over the years with the group of woman we all love, the Latinas.

1. It would be your best interest to understand a little something about latin music. For example, Cumbia, Raggaeton, Salsa, Etc, these are all popular latin genres that a lot of these ladies love. If they don’t if you are a famailar with a few artist and a couple of songs, you will be looked upon as someone cultural who understands them.

2. Learning a few steps in salsa. I’m not asking you to go out of your way to learn how to salsa dance. But if you know the basics steps to salsa you will get some play.

3. Be able to identify and understand somethings about their culture. Not every Latina is a Mexican. For all of the latin ladies I’ve spoken to, they were very impressed to know that I was able to identify their capital once they told me where their from. Trust me, if you are able to know a little something, it will take you a long way, I personally gureentee!

4. Learn a little Spanish! You don’t have to be a spanish expert or anything, but if you can display a few phrases, it can take you into a decent conversation.

Here is an example of this hottie i pulled on a nice 4th of july night

PUK: I see you burning it up on the dance floor, where you learn those moves from?

Target: I guess I learned from my parents

PUK: Wow, your parents taught you well, hopefully with a few classes and a nice warm hug, I’ll be on the right track.

PUK: By the way, where your from?

Target: I’m Puerto Rican

PUK: I see, no wonder i notice you had that salsa movement going on. Where you from in Puerto Rico?

Target: I am from Ponce

PUK: great city, I heard so much from San Juan and the Mayuguez area.

Target: Wow you know a lot about my country. How do you know so much?

PUK: Well I’m a man of adventure so I love to explore new places.

PUK: You seem like your really cool. would it be alright if we can keep in touch?

Target: Sure

PUK: Cual es tu numero de telefono?

Target: ooo you know a little spanish huh?

PUK: I try.

Number pulled

The 10 Commandements Of The Pickup Community

1. Respect the process of picking up woman because your mistakes can be costly to the next player.
2. Never tell your girlfriends about the tricks you used against them
3. If your just talking to a girl without being her boyfriend, never talk shit about the other people shes talking to. Instead, show more value and she’ll respect you more.
4. Dress with dignity and pride
5. To not buy any girl a drink without having at lease 15 minutes of conversations. (although im kind of hesitant unless im sure I see potential.)
6. Do not fuck or try to game your friends girlfriends or prospects
7. Staying well groomed for the best results
8. Never using corny pickup lines thats found by googling (pickuplines) trust me, ladies do the same thing.
9. illustrate the highest values
10. Never appear jeoulous to someone you just met. Thats just weak.

Hajji

    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?

Women are not science projects, they are human beings with feeling, emotions, dreams, ambitions, and some rationale. Seriously, women are reasoning, thoughtful, reflective beings and each individual woman is unique. However, all humans are living organisms. Living organisms respond to various stimuli. Overall, the laws of nature are fixed and every single living organism is bound by the simple principle of cause-and-effect.

Women just so happened to be rather complex living organisms. No matter how complex women are they still respond to stimuli and they are bound by cause-and-effect. Therefore, many questions and concerns relating to female behavior, personality, and sexuality can be explained.

 Gentlemen, there is a basic requirement that you must possess before you can unlock the mysteries of the female personality. You must possess a basic understanding of what makes females cry and what makes females happy. Sounds simple right? It is simple!

Once you have a solid understanding of what makes females cry and/or smile, then you are on your way to understanding the forces of nature. For example, men are the stimuli that have a tremendous affect on women’s emotions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and psyche. You, as an individual male, have to recognize the power of your presence on the female psyche.

 Some women think that men are saviors, and that the man’s role is to be a shield and keep them safe. This is an innate thought process that women have, especially if they grow up watching Disney movies. Unless women have been socialized differently, they cannot resist the basic primal instinct that ensures their survival. In fact, women are aroused by visual cues, olfactory cues, physical/textural stimulation, audio resonance, and of course flavors. Simply closing the physical distance between a male and a female can cause a female to feel that sense of security and intimacy (proxemics for those communication scholars).

 The combinations of stimuli are unique to each individual living organism. Not all organism will have the same reaction. When women are not responding to the stimuli that you are giving them, take that as a sign to consult The Pickup Kings.

Imagine yourself in a fast food restaurant at 2:30a.m after a fun night at the club. While you’re in line you look to your left and notice a group of attractive ladies laughing and joking around. What do you do? In this segment, I will give you the tools you need to be able to open a power set on a group of women which has been tested and proven successful. There are three things that is required in order to be successful. A sense of personality, a simple smile, and a touch of purpose.

After a long night at this hot night club in San Francisco, my friends and I had elected to go to Jack in the Box for some tacos and shakes until I noticed this group of hot ladies sitting down. Upon noticing their presence, I had searched deep down inside my psyche for the best approach to get their attention and finally it came to me. I noticed one of them was wearing a little wedding cap on her head so I knew it was some sort of ladies bachelorette night. So I approached the group with a big smile and wished the wedding girl good luck with her marriage, then proceeded with the group. The conversation took place like this:

PUK: Congratulations with finding your parter for life.

Engaged lady: Thanks! You’re such a sweet heart.

Puk: No worries, I have to wish you luck because I always wanted to find myself a position where I can marry someone I love and trust.

EL: I’m pretty sure you will. You have to be patient

PUK: Well I’m not in too much in a rush, (smile) but thanks.

PUK: So is their any other ladies getting married?

Group of ladies: Nope, Were single. Were not lucky as _____.

PUK: I see, well my friends over there and I are all single and ready to mingle so if any of you ladies are lucky, maybe we’ll take you out for coffee or something to get things warmed up.

I then proceeded to pipeline my fellas over and focused my attention on the one I thought was cute while my buddies did what they do best. Opening up on big sets is not only beneficial for yourself, but it also is beneficial for the team. There are several ways to open up on big sets, but you have a little creativity and courage. In addition, it is pretty exciting to know how people respond to your jokes and smiles. Stay tuned because we will focus more on the power ice breaker of the group.

~Hajji

We should all have an idea as to how a person get into game mode right? For those that don’t know, let me give you an analogy of a football team getting ready for a game. Typically speaking when these guys are getting ready for a game, they usually pump themselves up by convincing each other how good they are and what they plan on doing once that game clocks go into motion which is winning the game. Regardless of the results, most players are usually satisfied with their results if they mentally prepared themselves to the level where they put all of their ability on the line. These same rules apply when you and your friends go out to a night club 0r any other social gathering where the objective is to get as many phone numbers, sex,etc you can get. You will find yourself very much satisfied when leaving the nightclub and getting into your car knowing that you put your best performance out there by chatting up a storm with a bunch of ladies rather then not doing anything at all, and going home empty handed talking about what you coulda, shoulda done if you could had went back in time.

The way I usually get into game mode is by telling myself how charismatic I am, and how my presence would be a positive asset to the woman I approach. Although that sounds a little arrogant and absurd, You will find yourself approaching woman with much more confidence knowing your confident in what ever attribute you have compared to not knowing your strong attributes, which usually lead the ladies to smile at you and telling you she have to find her friends or any other lame rejection they give you. An attribute can be anything as long as it can be radiated to the the person who you find your self communicating with.

The importance of getting into game mode is extremely important because if you think about it, your operating under time constraints. Because you have only a certain amount of hours our minutes to get the best out of your night, you want to make sure you use your time effectively by positioning your self in the club, getting into game mode, and getting to action. Find your strengths and use them to your benefit when talking to the opposite sex.

~Hajji

Let’s face it, online dating is becoming more popular. For instance, the Stanford Institute for the Quantitative Study of Society found that as Internet use grows, Americans report spending less time in face-to-face interactions. 86% of college students are internet users. Technology is changing the world around us. Daily, couples are meeting online and exchanging e-mails, via chat rooms, newsgroups, instant messaging, and blogging. Anytime, day or night women are actively searching for amusement from a male companion. An abundant amount of women are now accessible through the world wide web. Because of the nature of the internet, dating has taken on new forms, and is played by different rules.

Courting a woman (singular) or attracting women (plural) no longer requires fancy clothes, cologne, a small gift, and a restaurant. Your ability to attract women is based off of your ability to strike an engaging conversation. Engaging topics, engaging questions, amusing comments, and witty humor are the essential qualities. Interestingly, I met a young woman in Barnes & Nobles book store a couple of months ago. She was deeply concentrating on her books and looked like she didn’t want to be disturbed. I saw her curriculum and noticed she was studying for med school, so I had to make contact with her. When I introduced myself as a college student passionate about learning, she opened up to me and began to talk. She was under a lot of stress from the pressure of exams and deadlines and wasn’t interested in a relationship, so instead of giving me her phone number, she gave me her e-mail address.

After e-mailing back an forth a few times she insisted that I subscribe to MSN Messenger so we could instant message one another (Hint: it is important to establish a personalized online text color like blue Arial or purple Times New Roman). After about a week of showing unrelenting interest she decided to take our seemingly trivial fling to the next level. She finally gave me her phone number and we had 30 minute conversations here, and 1 hour conversations there, and another 45 minute conversation here. The phone conversations was some sort of trust building fiasco where she was pretty much studying me and trying to get a sense of a predictable behavior pattern. Basically, cautious women want to know for sure that they are not about to go out on a date alone with a stranger who could be a complete psycho.

My college accent, scientific jargon, sophisticated vernacular, plus a mixture of colloquial slang was perfectly adapted to suit the med school student (formal language is NOT always appropriate). Fortunately, I’m linguistically gifted. Everything that came out of my mouth established my identity as a safe, trustworthy, and adventurous guy. She was the first one to propose that we go out on a date (Caution: an immediate request to “go out” may be met with disapproval and garnish a negative response). Our first date was really low key and inexpensive. We simply hooked up at the same Barnes & Noble book store, chatted for a while about stressing over school work, left to get ice cream, then took a walk around the busy shopping plaza and talked.

Our date lasted for three or four hours and we went our separate ways. That very same night we talked on the phone until sunrise. She simply would not let me get off of the phone. By the time it was 2 a.m. in the morning, the sexual tension was high. Our conversation went in all types of weird unpredictable directions. On our next date, a couple of days later, it was history in the making. My main point is, more and more people are starting relationships online. Myspace, Friendster, BlackPlanet, Facebook, SMS text messaging, ect, ect. College students especially use the internet as a tool to meet people. And as a tip, college students love diversity and are extremely open minded and are willing to try new things.

College students are curious, daring, and just broke the oppressive shackles of home life. Mom & Dad are no where around to supervise them so they have unlimited freedom and no inhibitions. The combination of an open curious mind and no parental supervision leads to endless possibilities. However, if you are planning to use the internet, you must have good words, a strong imagination, and know all the popular topics of conversation. Almost 60 percent of the American public have reported that they spend more time on the internet and less time with friends and family. People have finally found a way to meet people without immediately being judge on their looks. Although, webcams are becoming more popular…

As I sat at my desk on a rainy saturday night, I decided to contact my friends, and hit the night club with vengeance. The vibe in the club was almost like a music video in a sense that their was more woman to men, and the whole layout was just incredible. As I stepped outside to catch a breather, I noticed this beautiful young lady hanging just lagging around waiting for her friend to finish talking to some guy. Here is how the conversation went down. H= Hajji G=Girl

H. Oh my god, who is the designer of that shirt?

G. I’m not sure (blushes) why you ask?

H. Because I am a man of good taste, and looking at how that shirt goes with your outfit, I can tell you took the time to look good tonight.

G. Aww thanks (blushes) what brings you out tonight?

H. Well, I’m out with my boy tonight who just got a promotion so we out celebrating the coming of christ. How about you?

G. My girl friend had just broken up with her boyfriend so were just out celebrating our independence.

H. It’s nothing like a independent woman (smiles). I’ll tell you what, because you have on a nice shirt with a sense of independence, I’m going to ask for your number so we can follow up on this great conversation. Maybe you can give me some advice on buying cool appreal for my older sister.

G. Your funny, but I like your style. my number is ____. Have fun tonight.

H. I sure will. Pleasure meeting you.

The conversation went as fast as a few minutes, but the key to this and mostly all situations when talking to woman is making them smile, and illustrating swagger which I will detail later.

-Hajji

After much deliberation on whether I wanted to go out or tend to a cold that I had picked up from a weekend of partying, I decided to head out to a New Years Eve house party in the Sunset with some good friends.

In a future post I’ll describe the different types of venues and appropriate approaches for each but to be succinct here, the party was a typical house party where I personally knew only the two people I arrived with and no one else. In fact the person who asked me to accompany him to the party only knew the person throwing the party and it seemed like most of the people at the party were in the same boat. In other words it was the perfect prospecting environment since we didn’t have to deal with cliques or contend with ‘historic impressions’ of who we were.

Arriving at the party we found the ratio to be roughly 60 – 40 men to women which is far from great, but still workable. To establish social proof and to ease myself into a conversational mood, I opened and became engaged with a mixed set with no direct targets. One thing you’ll notice is that once you are engaged in casual conversation with a group, you’ll instantly become more approachable and actually will be opened by sets who notice that you are enjoying yourself. It’s important to remember that when you’re in the field you shouldn’t be actively scanning for prospects while doing nothing, you should always appear to be as social, or at least approachable as possible. This is especially important in venues like house parties where you’ll have plenty of opportunities to open, soft close, and re open target rich sets. Many beginning ‘pick-up artists’ are so focused on psyching themselves up to open their top target that they actually LOSE value by being unengaged and distant while they psyche themselves up.

I’m going to take a minute now to explain a bit of theory that will help you to understand the technique we used for the majority of the night

***Game Theory – Pipelining***

Whether it’s implicit or not, my wings and I have developed a system that I like to call pipelining to help increase our conversion ratios at closed social events like house parties. When executed properly it offers you and your wings both social proof and supply of targets to both open and evaluate for compatibility

Unless you’re using a wagering opener (will be discussed in a future post) it is *very* awkward and ineffective to approach a set of any size with more than one person. Pipelining, in it’s simplest form is the sequential introduction of members of your clique to a set (e.g., hey this is my friend ___, he’s from New York and says that Californian’s are idiots). In a more masked form they serve as a soft introduction/opener. Here’s an example from New Years Eve:

Wing: Yeah, I came here with my friends from high school
Target: Oh, where are they?
Wing (motioning to me, already engaged in conversation with a mixed set): He’s over there, but it looks like he’s being social, haha, I can introduce you two later
Target: Ok cool, blah blah blah

As you can see from that short bit of dialogue, pipelining gives me social value (by virtue of being temporarily unavailable), my wing social value (by having social *read: interesting* friends), and his target a sense of anticipation and reason to continue her conversation with my wing (introduction to a new, perhaps interesting, and clearly social person).

Don’t underestimate that last bit. Women are just like men in that at some level of their personality they are insecure about meeting new people, especially of the opposite sex. Giving her an in to meet someone new is a good demonstration of value.

Throughout the night, both myself and my wings setup and pipelined several targets to one another when we felt the conversation was lagging, or not the right type of interest or chemistry was bubbling between ourselves and our targets.
Pipelining also has the positive effect of increasing the likelihood of a target introducing you to her friend spread across the party, which is exactly how I was introduced to what turned out to be the night’s prime close.

***Field Report Continued***

After some brief banter and an introduction from her friend (who I just met, through pipelining), I was prospecting C. Knowing I already had the upper hand from the social proof her friend had given me (how generous), I shifted to a much more laid back approach. Since it was NYE contextual conversation topics like high’s and low’s of 2007 quicked moved into her dictating her life story to me… The occasional light touch on the arm, or helped build a level of confort between us.

Me: Oh so why are you studying bio
C: oh cause blah blah blah
M: Really (light touch on arm), because you seem like the person that really throws herself into things. I know I tried bio and it really didn’t work out for me
C: yah blah blah blah (leaning in looking for more comfort touches).

In our conversation she opened up pretty acutely dropped some pretty heavy stuff on me that I really wasn’t expecting, but I rolled with the punches and continued with the comfort touches until:

C: I’m going to ask a really bold question here
M: Oh yeah what’s that
C: Are you seeing anyone right now?
M: haha… that was pretty bold, but haha no
C: Ok, im going to ask another bold question
M: Shoot
C: Would it be ok if I gave you my number
M: haha… sure blah blah
C: Promise to call me ok

It’s not the first time this has happened, but I’ve noticed the circumstances that it occurs in are similar, nearly always at a closed house party… Anyway based on my experience it’s always best to continue the conversation after this type of number close. We chat for a bit and I excuse myself from the conversation to ‘find my friend.’

After finding him she comes back and RE-OPEN’s me… As we banter more, I comfort more, and here she leans closer and closer towards me until:

C: It’s kinda loud in here
M: Yeah, you wanna talk outside
C: Sure…

Nine times out of ten, moving a conversation to a quieter place means m/o session. Personally, unless there’s a route for escalation m/o sessions after a long conversation don’t really add much to the overall game. You already have built up your value and buying temp. A m/o will only serve as a valve to release some of that temp if you don’t F-close that night. In this case however, I thought an F-close wasn’t out of reach so I acquiesced. Unfortunately literally 90 seconds after we were outside, my wing (and ride home) announced we were leaving. So I ended up with an abbreviated K-close.

-Profit