The Pickup Kings

There are men out there who believes that you can get all the girls you want by using universal game. Trust me, this is completely false. For each group of woman, ethnically speaking, you have to have a certain kind of appeal to reach to them. In the case of the Latina, I will outline my great formula that should get you the results I have gotten over the years with the group of woman we all love, the Latinas.

1. It would be your best interest to understand a little something about latin music. For example, Cumbia, Raggaeton, Salsa, Etc, these are all popular latin genres that a lot of these ladies love. If they don’t if you are a famailar with a few artist and a couple of songs, you will be looked upon as someone cultural who understands them.

2. Learning a few steps in salsa. I’m not asking you to go out of your way to learn how to salsa dance. But if you know the basics steps to salsa you will get some play.

3. Be able to identify and understand somethings about their culture. Not every Latina is a Mexican. For all of the latin ladies I’ve spoken to, they were very impressed to know that I was able to identify their capital once they told me where their from. Trust me, if you are able to know a little something, it will take you a long way, I personally gureentee!

4. Learn a little Spanish! You don’t have to be a spanish expert or anything, but if you can display a few phrases, it can take you into a decent conversation.

Here is an example of this hottie i pulled on a nice 4th of july night

PUK: I see you burning it up on the dance floor, where you learn those moves from?

Target: I guess I learned from my parents

PUK: Wow, your parents taught you well, hopefully with a few classes and a nice warm hug, I’ll be on the right track.

PUK: By the way, where your from?

Target: I’m Puerto Rican

PUK: I see, no wonder i notice you had that salsa movement going on. Where you from in Puerto Rico?

Target: I am from Ponce

PUK: great city, I heard so much from San Juan and the Mayuguez area.

Target: Wow you know a lot about my country. How do you know so much?

PUK: Well I’m a man of adventure so I love to explore new places.

PUK: You seem like your really cool. would it be alright if we can keep in touch?

Target: Sure

PUK: Cual es tu numero de telefono?

Target: ooo you know a little spanish huh?

PUK: I try.

Number pulled

So you dropped your killer opener, it flies marvelously, you scan the set and engage your target by asking-

“So… where are you guys coming from tonight”
or
“So… what do you do”

All of a sudden your target seems less engaged and eye codes to her friends for an out…

I’m sure many of us have noticed a sizable drop in energy when a conversation shifts from the observational (this DJ sucks) or the theoretical (who lies more guys or girls) to something more pedestrian like what do you do, or where do you work.

Why?

For the most part, people go out to get away from their day to day, directly asking a prospect about her school, background, or career early in the engagement is total buzz kill, especially, as is often the case, what she does is not what she’s passionate about. Not only that, but questions like these telegraph too much interest. Why should you care about where she came from or what she does? At this point in the pick-up all that matters is that she’s right in front of you having a conversation with you. These questions should be reserved for later on in the pick-up after attraction is generated and the focus shifts from manufacturing interest to generating comfort and rapport.

Instead of moving to these logical, yet unimportant questions your focus your energies on creating a party atmosphere. Your goal during the early pick up should be to generate interest and/or intrigue. Stack your set with a game (e.g strawberry fields, five questions), a challenge/banter (negs, friendly teasing, joking), or a cold read (e.g. Ring or palm reading). Continue stacking hard until you start getting the indicators of interest that suggest she’s ready for rapport building and seduction.

If anything SHE should be the one that switches the tone of the conversation from the party atmosphere to the mundane interview questions signifying HER interest in getting to know the puppet master behind the strings.
-Profit

I witnessed the effects of something that almost defied logic this weekend- The reverse cockblock.

I’m sure all of us have been in a position where someone or something gets in the way of our gaming. It could be a mother hen, jealous girlfriend, or a crappy DJ. Collectively, these obstacles are called cock blocks and they serve to hinder game by throwing sarcastic remarks, setting the wrong tone, or otherwise throw you off your game.

But what if a statement perceived as cockblock served to build more attraction? Enter the reverse cockblock.

Here’s how it works

PUA and his wing opens a set and PUA isolates his target, while his wing rolls off. PUA builds decent rapport and excuses himself (to the bathroom, to make a call, buy a drink whatever, it doesn’t matter). PUA’s Wing then swoops in and drops the following dialog:

Wing: Hey what’s up, i see you and person A are getting along (to target)
Target: Yeah, he’s cool
Wing: Well, i don’t mean to hate or anything, don’t get your hopes up, he talks to a lot of girls, and even if he gets your phone number he probably won’t call.
Target: (shocked): ook
Wing: Yeah, I’m a nice guy and you seem like you’re really into him so I’m just letting you know
Target: uhh, ok, thanks
Wing: Anyway I gotta bounce

What’s key in the reverse cock block is the reason for disqualification. In order to work, the PUA needs to be disqualified because of his ability to get and charm girls. When the interaction resumes the PUA should not direct address what the wing said unless the target brings it up. If she doesn’t bring it up and continues the dialog, it’s money, she’ll be flattered that the PUA is continuing to talk to her despite his ‘player’ reputation. Continue to game and increase attraction and close.

If she does bring it up, she’s showing insecurity and it’s a great time to qualify her. Address it head on, say something to the effect of “Yes, I do chat with a lot of girls, but there was something special about you that makes me want to talk to YOU tonight instead of anyone else here.” Move on and continue to game.

This is a FIELD TESTED technique, but it’s still in the midst of testing this at different points in the game cycle. I’ve seen this done Modified where it’s performed at the end of a cycle after the PUA #closes. This allows to have your wing increase her surprise/receptiveness when the PUA actually calls her the next day.

 
Lets be clear. When you have a prospect on deck there has to be a good connection between the two in order for you to hit it on the first date. What works for me is when I take a girl out to a full date (dinner, bowling, etc,) I demonstrate a lot of value by making her laugh, making her feel comfortable , and listening to the various stupid shit that woman like to talk about. After were done hanging out, I ask them if they would be intrested in watching a movie or something at my house. Once their at my place, this is the steps I take in making magic happen.

1. Making sure the room is nice and clean. Before i even leave my house going on a date, I make sure my place is clean because i know its a great chance i’ll be asking them to come.

2. Being patient. Dont be so thirsty because you got some pussy in your room. Relax a bit. laugh with her and share a couple of jokes. After shes feeling loose and comfortable, take her to a place where theres privacy such as a room or something.

3. The Movie- From there, proceed to putting on a movie preferbily something that would grab her attention. IE no American Pie. Put on something with a little bit of action maybe some with some sex.

4. Move 1. Den the lights. Once the lights is denned, make sure you move close to her so theres some friction happening.

5. Move 2. Put your arm around her slowly. From this point on, if shes really comfortable with you, she’ll embrace it. Once she embraces that arm, its on.

6. Move 3. Go for the kiss. Once the kiss is estblished, and if your good, her body will be hot as hell and the temperture will be rising.

7. Move 4. Lastly, kiss on the neck and offer to go for a massage and from that point on, you should know what to do.

For one reason or another, a lot of woman try to use the phrase “I have a boyfriend” to get you to stop talking to them. Based on trial and error, I discovered the best way to combat this is to simply not mention her relationship stuatus during the course of a conversation, and simplying rebuttling her if she comes off rude by saying ” I have a boyfriend before you even get a chance to run your routine. You will suprised to find out over a course of a laugh or two that shes simply trying to filter out the trash that comes her way by using the boyfriend defense. Most men buying into that crap and simply give up. Personally if its not my friends or family girl friend, I’m going for the throat.

If your going rapid fire aka playing the number game, here is some important rebuttles just in case they use the boyfriend defense before you get a chance to run your routine.

1. Who mentioned something about a boyfriend? I’m just out trying to have a good time.

2. I didn’t ask you about your problem, however, if you need a shoulder to lean on, i’ll be more then happy to provide my side to you.

3. Do you really? thats great because I have a girlfriend. I was just approching you because you look like someone I went to school with.

4. Boyfriend huh? thats good because he stole you away from a championship team ( and you look at her like you hinting about yourself.)

-Hajji

The 10 Commandements Of The Pickup Community

1. Respect the process of picking up woman because your mistakes can be costly to the next player.
2. Never tell your girlfriends about the tricks you used against them
3. If your just talking to a girl without being her boyfriend, never talk shit about the other people shes talking to. Instead, show more value and she’ll respect you more.
4. Dress with dignity and pride
5. To not buy any girl a drink without having at lease 15 minutes of conversations. (although im kind of hesitant unless im sure I see potential.)
6. Do not fuck or try to game your friends girlfriends or prospects
7. Staying well groomed for the best results
8. Never using corny pickup lines thats found by googling (pickuplines) trust me, ladies do the same thing.
9. illustrate the highest values
10. Never appear jeoulous to someone you just met. Thats just weak.

Hajji

    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?

Approaching random woman is like approaching job employers. Their the same in the sense that your looking for something right? You wouldn’t go into a job interview wearing a shirt that says “single and loving it right? Instead you will wear something appropriate that you feel might give you a shot at working for the company. These same rules apply when talking to woman. You have to approach them dressed to impressed so when you leave that conversation, she can at lease admire your sense of style.

Believe it or not when females talk to one another, they ask plenty of questions. Depending on the girl your pursuing, she would most likely ask her friend questions about your looks, style, and confidence. Because clothes are indicators of all above, I strongly recommend you wear clothes that reflect a good sense of style, because it will let them know your confident about your style.

Women are not science projects, they are human beings with feeling, emotions, dreams, ambitions, and some rationale. Seriously, women are reasoning, thoughtful, reflective beings and each individual woman is unique. However, all humans are living organisms. Living organisms respond to various stimuli. Overall, the laws of nature are fixed and every single living organism is bound by the simple principle of cause-and-effect.

Women just so happened to be rather complex living organisms. No matter how complex women are they still respond to stimuli and they are bound by cause-and-effect. Therefore, many questions and concerns relating to female behavior, personality, and sexuality can be explained.

 Gentlemen, there is a basic requirement that you must possess before you can unlock the mysteries of the female personality. You must possess a basic understanding of what makes females cry and what makes females happy. Sounds simple right? It is simple!

Once you have a solid understanding of what makes females cry and/or smile, then you are on your way to understanding the forces of nature. For example, men are the stimuli that have a tremendous affect on women’s emotions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and psyche. You, as an individual male, have to recognize the power of your presence on the female psyche.

 Some women think that men are saviors, and that the man’s role is to be a shield and keep them safe. This is an innate thought process that women have, especially if they grow up watching Disney movies. Unless women have been socialized differently, they cannot resist the basic primal instinct that ensures their survival. In fact, women are aroused by visual cues, olfactory cues, physical/textural stimulation, audio resonance, and of course flavors. Simply closing the physical distance between a male and a female can cause a female to feel that sense of security and intimacy (proxemics for those communication scholars).

 The combinations of stimuli are unique to each individual living organism. Not all organism will have the same reaction. When women are not responding to the stimuli that you are giving them, take that as a sign to consult The Pickup Kings.

Imagine yourself in a fast food restaurant at 2:30a.m after a fun night at the club. While you’re in line you look to your left and notice a group of attractive ladies laughing and joking around. What do you do? In this segment, I will give you the tools you need to be able to open a power set on a group of women which has been tested and proven successful. There are three things that is required in order to be successful. A sense of personality, a simple smile, and a touch of purpose.

After a long night at this hot night club in San Francisco, my friends and I had elected to go to Jack in the Box for some tacos and shakes until I noticed this group of hot ladies sitting down. Upon noticing their presence, I had searched deep down inside my psyche for the best approach to get their attention and finally it came to me. I noticed one of them was wearing a little wedding cap on her head so I knew it was some sort of ladies bachelorette night. So I approached the group with a big smile and wished the wedding girl good luck with her marriage, then proceeded with the group. The conversation took place like this:

PUK: Congratulations with finding your parter for life.

Engaged lady: Thanks! You’re such a sweet heart.

Puk: No worries, I have to wish you luck because I always wanted to find myself a position where I can marry someone I love and trust.

EL: I’m pretty sure you will. You have to be patient

PUK: Well I’m not in too much in a rush, (smile) but thanks.

PUK: So is their any other ladies getting married?

Group of ladies: Nope, Were single. Were not lucky as _____.

PUK: I see, well my friends over there and I are all single and ready to mingle so if any of you ladies are lucky, maybe we’ll take you out for coffee or something to get things warmed up.

I then proceeded to pipeline my fellas over and focused my attention on the one I thought was cute while my buddies did what they do best. Opening up on big sets is not only beneficial for yourself, but it also is beneficial for the team. There are several ways to open up on big sets, but you have a little creativity and courage. In addition, it is pretty exciting to know how people respond to your jokes and smiles. Stay tuned because we will focus more on the power ice breaker of the group.

~Hajji