For one reason or another, a lot of woman try to use the phrase “I have a boyfriend” to get you to stop talking to them. Based on trial and error, I discovered the best way to combat this is to simply not mention her relationship stuatus during the course of a conversation, and simplying rebuttling her if she comes off rude by saying ” I have a boyfriend before you even get a chance to run your routine. You will suprised to find out over a course of a laugh or two that shes simply trying to filter out the trash that comes her way by using the boyfriend defense. Most men buying into that crap and simply give up. Personally if its not my friends or family girl friend, I’m going for the throat.

If your going rapid fire aka playing the number game, here is some important rebuttles just in case they use the boyfriend defense before you get a chance to run your routine.

1. Who mentioned something about a boyfriend? I’m just out trying to have a good time.

2. I didn’t ask you about your problem, however, if you need a shoulder to lean on, i’ll be more then happy to provide my side to you.

3. Do you really? thats great because I have a girlfriend. I was just approching you because you look like someone I went to school with.

4. Boyfriend huh? thats good because he stole you away from a championship team ( and you look at her like you hinting about yourself.)

-Hajji

Playing the friend is a very tactile approach to winning the girl/s you want. The reason being is these ladies are constantly approached by men, and while these men might be great pick up artist, they make the fatal mistake of being to direct which makes it a lot easier for the lady not to answer her phone when he calls her again. While playing the friend role may seem like its a cop out, think of it like this, once you get to know the girl and she appreciates your presence, it would be a lot harder for her to release you after being her friend’, compared to a random guy who tells her how beautiful she is and how much he wants to be with her.

Here is some key openers for opening and closing for in regards to Friend game: (After the club)

PUK: Did you like the DJ tonight?  The music was alright but I didn’t like how he mixed it.

Target: I personally thought he was alright but hey, that’s my opinion.

PUK: On a better note, My name is Hajji and you?

Target: My name is Nicole

Puk: Pinch me if I’m wrong but you seem like a kind of girl who enjoys long walks on the beach. Is this true.

Target: Well, I do like the beach but i can do without the long walks which means i owe you a pinch.

PUK: Hahaha well most times my intuitions are accurate. Even Micheal Jordan misses shots.

Puk: You seem really cool. I would love to keep you as a friend so we can continue a good chat or two about things other then long walks on sandy beaches.

Target: You seem great and all, but I just got out of a relationship.

PUK: That’s fine. Before you be anything with anyone, you have to be a friend right? That was my intentions all along. To be your friend.

Target: Alright but only as friends…. Here is my number. Give me a ring.

Break down:

Although she gave me her number, being her friend has the possibility of opening many doors including a love life. First and foremost, you have to let the girl know that there is attraction between you and her, but friendship is what your after.

When it time to hang out, display your best qualities. Once this happens, she will admire that and when the time is ripe, the door will open for you.

Don’t be to aggressive. You will chase the butterfly away.

-Hajji

There are men out there who believes that you can get all the girls you want by using universal game. Trust me, this is completely false. For each group of woman, ethnically speaking, you have to have a certain kind of appeal to reach to them. In the case of the Latina, I will outline my great formula that should get you the results I have gotten over the years with the group of woman we all love, the Latinas.

1. It would be your best interest to understand a little something about latin music. For example, Cumbia, Raggaeton, Salsa, Etc, these are all popular latin genres that a lot of these ladies love. If they don’t if you are a famailar with a few artist and a couple of songs, you will be looked upon as someone cultural who understands them.

2. Learning a few steps in salsa. I’m not asking you to go out of your way to learn how to salsa dance. But if you know the basics steps to salsa you will get some play.

3. Be able to identify and understand somethings about their culture. Not every Latina is a Mexican. For all of the latin ladies I’ve spoken to, they were very impressed to know that I was able to identify their capital once they told me where their from. Trust me, if you are able to know a little something, it will take you a long way, I personally gureentee!

4. Learn a little Spanish! You don’t have to be a spanish expert or anything, but if you can display a few phrases, it can take you into a decent conversation.

Here is an example of this hottie i pulled on a nice 4th of july night

PUK: I see you burning it up on the dance floor, where you learn those moves from?

Target: I guess I learned from my parents

PUK: Wow, your parents taught you well, hopefully with a few classes and a nice warm hug, I’ll be on the right track.

PUK: By the way, where your from?

Target: I’m Puerto Rican

PUK: I see, no wonder i notice you had that salsa movement going on. Where you from in Puerto Rico?

Target: I am from Ponce

PUK: great city, I heard so much from San Juan and the Mayuguez area.

Target: Wow you know a lot about my country. How do you know so much?

PUK: Well I’m a man of adventure so I love to explore new places.

PUK: You seem like your really cool. would it be alright if we can keep in touch?

Target: Sure

PUK: Cual es tu numero de telefono?

Target: ooo you know a little spanish huh?

PUK: I try.

Number pulled

Animals are so intresting because they look so different then us upright walking human beings. However, there are several people who strongly believes there are strong simalarites with human beings and animals. Because i find this evident, I created this animal game to kind of shift the momentum in a conversation which often make a woman smile.

Earlier this week, I was chatting with this lady in a club. We chatted from everything from favorite television shows, to most liked interest. In the mist of the conversation, I introduced the Animal game which totally threw her off, but overall she enjoyed it. Here is how it took place:

PUK: Which one would you pick? Zebra or Pig?

Target: Hmmmm ……. I guess i’ll pick the zebra

Target: What makes you ask such a question?

PUK: Well there are symbolic meanings within both animals. The pig represents wealth and greed while the zebra represents diversity. Because you picked the zebra, your a type of person who values diversity. Is that true?\

Target: wow! I actually do.

PUK: Well……I kind of figured.

This is really good if you find yourself stuck in a conversation. It works perfect because you can use that to quickly shift to the next conversation. You can pick any animal and make up some stuff about whats its symbolic meaning is.

Happy gaming!

    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?

Women are not science projects, they are human beings with feeling, emotions, dreams, ambitions, and some rationale. Seriously, women are reasoning, thoughtful, reflective beings and each individual woman is unique. However, all humans are living organisms. Living organisms respond to various stimuli. Overall, the laws of nature are fixed and every single living organism is bound by the simple principle of cause-and-effect.

Women just so happened to be rather complex living organisms. No matter how complex women are they still respond to stimuli and they are bound by cause-and-effect. Therefore, many questions and concerns relating to female behavior, personality, and sexuality can be explained.

 Gentlemen, there is a basic requirement that you must possess before you can unlock the mysteries of the female personality. You must possess a basic understanding of what makes females cry and what makes females happy. Sounds simple right? It is simple!

Once you have a solid understanding of what makes females cry and/or smile, then you are on your way to understanding the forces of nature. For example, men are the stimuli that have a tremendous affect on women’s emotions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and psyche. You, as an individual male, have to recognize the power of your presence on the female psyche.

 Some women think that men are saviors, and that the man’s role is to be a shield and keep them safe. This is an innate thought process that women have, especially if they grow up watching Disney movies. Unless women have been socialized differently, they cannot resist the basic primal instinct that ensures their survival. In fact, women are aroused by visual cues, olfactory cues, physical/textural stimulation, audio resonance, and of course flavors. Simply closing the physical distance between a male and a female can cause a female to feel that sense of security and intimacy (proxemics for those communication scholars).

 The combinations of stimuli are unique to each individual living organism. Not all organism will have the same reaction. When women are not responding to the stimuli that you are giving them, take that as a sign to consult The Pickup Kings.

Imagine yourself in a fast food restaurant at 2:30a.m after a fun night at the club. While you’re in line you look to your left and notice a group of attractive ladies laughing and joking around. What do you do? In this segment, I will give you the tools you need to be able to open a power set on a group of women which has been tested and proven successful. There are three things that is required in order to be successful. A sense of personality, a simple smile, and a touch of purpose.

After a long night at this hot night club in San Francisco, my friends and I had elected to go to Jack in the Box for some tacos and shakes until I noticed this group of hot ladies sitting down. Upon noticing their presence, I had searched deep down inside my psyche for the best approach to get their attention and finally it came to me. I noticed one of them was wearing a little wedding cap on her head so I knew it was some sort of ladies bachelorette night. So I approached the group with a big smile and wished the wedding girl good luck with her marriage, then proceeded with the group. The conversation took place like this:

PUK: Congratulations with finding your parter for life.

Engaged lady: Thanks! You’re such a sweet heart.

Puk: No worries, I have to wish you luck because I always wanted to find myself a position where I can marry someone I love and trust.

EL: I’m pretty sure you will. You have to be patient

PUK: Well I’m not in too much in a rush, (smile) but thanks.

PUK: So is their any other ladies getting married?

Group of ladies: Nope, Were single. Were not lucky as _____.

PUK: I see, well my friends over there and I are all single and ready to mingle so if any of you ladies are lucky, maybe we’ll take you out for coffee or something to get things warmed up.

I then proceeded to pipeline my fellas over and focused my attention on the one I thought was cute while my buddies did what they do best. Opening up on big sets is not only beneficial for yourself, but it also is beneficial for the team. There are several ways to open up on big sets, but you have a little creativity and courage. In addition, it is pretty exciting to know how people respond to your jokes and smiles. Stay tuned because we will focus more on the power ice breaker of the group.

~Hajji

As I sat at my desk on a rainy saturday night, I decided to contact my friends, and hit the night club with vengeance. The vibe in the club was almost like a music video in a sense that their was more woman to men, and the whole layout was just incredible. As I stepped outside to catch a breather, I noticed this beautiful young lady hanging just lagging around waiting for her friend to finish talking to some guy. Here is how the conversation went down. H= Hajji G=Girl

H. Oh my god, who is the designer of that shirt?

G. I’m not sure (blushes) why you ask?

H. Because I am a man of good taste, and looking at how that shirt goes with your outfit, I can tell you took the time to look good tonight.

G. Aww thanks (blushes) what brings you out tonight?

H. Well, I’m out with my boy tonight who just got a promotion so we out celebrating the coming of christ. How about you?

G. My girl friend had just broken up with her boyfriend so were just out celebrating our independence.

H. It’s nothing like a independent woman (smiles). I’ll tell you what, because you have on a nice shirt with a sense of independence, I’m going to ask for your number so we can follow up on this great conversation. Maybe you can give me some advice on buying cool appreal for my older sister.

G. Your funny, but I like your style. my number is ____. Have fun tonight.

H. I sure will. Pleasure meeting you.

The conversation went as fast as a few minutes, but the key to this and mostly all situations when talking to woman is making them smile, and illustrating swagger which I will detail later.

-Hajji

When approaching groups of woman, we all have a history of a terrible wingman that crashed the whole mission by either overplaying his role or not playing it correctly which results in no ass. In this segment, I will offer three examples of the perfect wingman which will give you the necessary tools to infiltrating that group of woman to get the results your looking for.

1. Your in a bar in you noticed 3 girls talking and out of those 3 girls, only one is cute. You as the hitman have to instruct the wingman to follow your directions so you guys can be a united force if the plan is to converse with the whole group. The role of the wingman in this situation is to isolate the two girls away from the hitman’s target, and keep them entertained by talking about random shit which will keep them away from their friend. If you are unable to seperate the two girls from the rest of the pack, follow the conversate that is given by the hitman, and not change that course because that will show inconsistency.

2. Your at a bookstore and you noticed two girls and a guy talking. The role of the wingman in this situation is to be the “lab rat” by joining the conversation and taking the guy away from the two girls by conversing with him over random shit. Once the hitman see an open road, he will entertain the two girls and try to conquere which ever one he wants.

3. Your in a cafe in you notice a mother and her beautiful daughter is having a wonderful conversation. The role of the hitman and the wing should huddle up and think of a perfect soulution to decieve the two by either having some kind of history with the girl to take the mother off guard. Perhaps asking the girl if she went to a particular middle school or high school. This situation can be a bit dangerous but you will be surprised how cool moms can be sometime when it comes to guys approaching their daughters.

-Hajji