Picking up ladies at a cafe can be very easy if you do not come off as awkward. What I mean by coming across as awkward is looking at her weird, than saying hello without a strong follow-up. Or starring at her for a very long time before you eventually have enough courage to introduce yourself which can also be awkward if you been starring at her for a very long time. The key in this situation is when you see a lady you like, you quickly Strategize a good way to capture her attention without looking at her. This process should take no longer than 45 seconds to a minute. Once you figured out your strategy, make sure you make your presence is felt by being confident, making eye contact, and flashing an occasional smile. Below will be a few proven strategies that I’ve used to capture ladies attention at coffee shops.

- That looks like a pretty interesting book, I believe I’ve  read something similar to this while I was in college. My name is Hajji by the way. What’s yours?

- I must say that I really love your makeup. Do you do it yourself or you got it done professionally? My name is Hajji and you?

- You look like a really smart girl that loves to read a good book. Do you have any good recomendations on a good read? My name is hajji.

It is extremely important that after you make contact, you keep the conversation going by staying as interesting as possible. Because this is a cafe type setting, you don’t want to conversate for to long unless she insists.

Good luck players!

-Hajji

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House parties are by far the easiest places to score with chicks. Because these environments are filled with people that know one another, opening up a set is easy. Keep in mind that when you do attempt to approach a girl, make sure your attitude, demeanor, and posture are ‘one’. This element is important because there tends to be tight spaces to operate in depending on the size of the house. If these elements are not in place, it will be very easy for a lady to overlook you, and talk to the next guy that have the amazing personality.

Bare in mind that woman loved to be talked to in house parties. Ugly or very beautiful they want to be seen with somebody talking to them. Here’s a scenario that happened last weekend at a college party I was at-

PUK- For some reason I really love your shoes, do you mind if I ask where you got them?

Chick- I got them at ____________. And guess what, I only got them for $20.

PUK- Wow are you serious! I guess I know what to get my mom for her birthday this Saturday. My name is Hajji by the way whats yours?

Chick- My name is mellisa.

PUK- I really admire a woman with good taste.

Chick- Thank you

Puk- So how do you like to spend your free time?

Chick- I like to read, drink coffee, and once and a while party.

PUK- What a coincidence, I do as well. How about we exchange numbers so I can buy you my favorite blended coffee.

Chick- No problem.

-Hajji

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Have you ever approached a woman and she immediately swatted you away which made you feel smaller then an ant? If you are a person that pursues woman, chances are you’ve experienced some form of rejection. Being rejected isn’t the best feeling in the world considering that the woman you approached was someone you could see yourself with. Therefore, my colleagues and I have developed a powerful tool which will help you combat rejection which plagues many of us.

It is my belief that if a person is equipped with the right tools to combat rejection, you will then be able to shift that negitive energy into positive energy which in return can make them feel stupid. According to the woman I’ve encountered the typical responses I’ve received when woman attempted to reject me was; “I’m having a bad day”, “I have a boyfriend,” “I’m gay,” ” I’m just with my ladies trying to have a good time.”

These canned rejections are so prevalent in our society that they come second nature to woman because we us meaning the males never have the rebuttles to make them feel silly at their own game. Here is one of many solutions we subscribe to at pickup kings. First and foremost, when we approach woman, we do not come off as pick-up artist which most ladies hate because a lot of them have no originality. Therefore, when we approach the ladies, we come off as men who is truly interested in conversating or asking a question which will reduce the chances of them being rude. Here is a sample dialoge to what I am suggesting looks like and how I make rebuttal’s to their innital attitudes:

PUK: Excuse me, I am looking to find building _______ do you know if you can direct me to that area?

Lady: I’m sorry, I have a boyfriend.

PUK: Wow that is pretty nice to know. However, that wasn’t the information I was looking for. I was wondering if you knew how I can find this building.

Lady: Oh I’m sorry. There are a lot of guys out there that like to use game thinking it would work on me.

PUK: (smiling) well I can see your a tough walnut to crack. Hopefully you don’t preform no martial arts on me or anything because I have a promising future.

Lady: (laughing) so do you you usually come up and ask girls questions like this all the time? is that apart of your game?

PUK: As you can tell I don’t have a lick of game. What’s wrong with a gentleman asking a question? Hopefully I don’t get struck by lighting or anything by asking a question.

Lady: You are a funny guy

PUK: Thanks. I find your innitial response a little funny as well. You seem really nice how about we have some coffee sometime?

Lady: See I was right. (smiling). You are a pick up guy huh?

PUK: Not at all. I just like your personality. You have every right to say no. And plus, wouldn’t you want to have a friend like myself that can keep you smiling all the time making you feel like a million bucks?

Lady: Sure why not. Hopefully your not some crazy psycho or something.

PUK: Last time I checked I was pretty sane.

Lady: Well here is my number###-###-####

PUK: Cool. I guess I will call you soon. Nice meeting you

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So you dropped your killer opener, it flies marvelously, you scan the set and engage your target by asking-

“So… where are you guys coming from tonight”
or
“So… what do you do”

All of a sudden your target seems less engaged and eye codes to her friends for an out…

I’m sure many of us have noticed a sizable drop in energy when a conversation shifts from the observational (this DJ sucks) or the theoretical (who lies more guys or girls) to something more pedestrian like what do you do, or where do you work.

Why?

For the most part, people go out to get away from their day to day, directly asking a prospect about her school, background, or career early in the engagement is total buzz kill, especially, as is often the case, what she does is not what she’s passionate about. Not only that, but questions like these telegraph too much interest. Why should you care about where she came from or what she does? At this point in the pick-up all that matters is that she’s right in front of you having a conversation with you. These questions should be reserved for later on in the pick-up after attraction is generated and the focus shifts from manufacturing interest to generating comfort and rapport.

Instead of moving to these logical, yet unimportant questions your focus your energies on creating a party atmosphere. Your goal during the early pick up should be to generate interest and/or intrigue. Stack your set with a game (e.g strawberry fields, five questions), a challenge/banter (negs, friendly teasing, joking), or a cold read (e.g. Ring or palm reading). Continue stacking hard until you start getting the indicators of interest that suggest she’s ready for rapport building and seduction.

If anything SHE should be the one that switches the tone of the conversation from the party atmosphere to the mundane interview questions signifying HER interest in getting to know the puppet master behind the strings.
-Profit

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For one reason or another, a lot of woman try to use the phrase “I have a boyfriend” to get you to stop talking to them. Based on trial and error, I discovered the best way to combat this is to simply not mention her relationship stuatus during the course of a conversation, and simplying rebuttling her if she comes off rude by saying ” I have a boyfriend before you even get a chance to run your routine. You will suprised to find out over a course of a laugh or two that shes simply trying to filter out the trash that comes her way by using the boyfriend defense. Most men buying into that crap and simply give up. Personally if its not my friends or family girl friend, I’m going for the throat.

If your going rapid fire aka playing the number game, here is some important rebuttles just in case they use the boyfriend defense before you get a chance to run your routine.

1. Who mentioned something about a boyfriend? I’m just out trying to have a good time.

2. I didn’t ask you about your problem, however, if you need a shoulder to lean on, i’ll be more then happy to provide my side to you.

3. Do you really? thats great because I have a girlfriend. I was just approching you because you look like someone I went to school with.

4. Boyfriend huh? thats good because he stole you away from a championship team ( and you look at her like you hinting about yourself.)

-Hajji

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Playing the friend is a very tactile approach to winning the girl/s you want. The reason being is these ladies are constantly approached by men, and while these men might be great pick up artist, they make the fatal mistake of being to direct which makes it a lot easier for the lady not to answer her phone when he calls her again. While playing the friend role may seem like its a cop out, think of it like this, once you get to know the girl and she appreciates your presence, it would be a lot harder for her to release you after being her friend’, compared to a random guy who tells her how beautiful she is and how much he wants to be with her.

Here is some key openers for opening and closing for in regards to Friend game: (After the club)

PUK: Did you like the DJ tonight?  The music was alright but I didn’t like how he mixed it.

Target: I personally thought he was alright but hey, that’s my opinion.

PUK: On a better note, My name is Hajji and you?

Target: My name is Nicole

Puk: Pinch me if I’m wrong but you seem like a kind of girl who enjoys long walks on the beach. Is this true.

Target: Well, I do like the beach but i can do without the long walks which means i owe you a pinch.

PUK: Hahaha well most times my intuitions are accurate. Even Micheal Jordan misses shots.

Puk: You seem really cool. I would love to keep you as a friend so we can continue a good chat or two about things other then long walks on sandy beaches.

Target: You seem great and all, but I just got out of a relationship.

PUK: That’s fine. Before you be anything with anyone, you have to be a friend right? That was my intentions all along. To be your friend.

Target: Alright but only as friends…. Here is my number. Give me a ring.

Break down:

Although she gave me her number, being her friend has the possibility of opening many doors including a love life. First and foremost, you have to let the girl know that there is attraction between you and her, but friendship is what your after.

When it time to hang out, display your best qualities. Once this happens, she will admire that and when the time is ripe, the door will open for you.

Don’t be to aggressive. You will chase the butterfly away.

-Hajji

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There are men out there who believes that you can get all the girls you want by using universal game. Trust me, this is completely false. For each group of woman, ethnically speaking, you have to have a certain kind of appeal to reach to them. In the case of the Latina, I will outline my great formula that should get you the results I have gotten over the years with the group of woman we all love, the Latinas.

1. It would be your best interest to understand a little something about latin music. For example, Cumbia, Raggaeton, Salsa, Etc, these are all popular latin genres that a lot of these ladies love. If they don’t if you are a famailar with a few artist and a couple of songs, you will be looked upon as someone cultural who understands them.

2. Learning a few steps in salsa. I’m not asking you to go out of your way to learn how to salsa dance. But if you know the basics steps to salsa you will get some play.

3. Be able to identify and understand somethings about their culture. Not every Latina is a Mexican. For all of the latin ladies I’ve spoken to, they were very impressed to know that I was able to identify their capital once they told me where their from. Trust me, if you are able to know a little something, it will take you a long way, I personally gureentee!

4. Learn a little Spanish! You don’t have to be a spanish expert or anything, but if you can display a few phrases, it can take you into a decent conversation.

Here is an example of this hottie i pulled on a nice 4th of july night

PUK: I see you burning it up on the dance floor, where you learn those moves from?

Target: I guess I learned from my parents

PUK: Wow, your parents taught you well, hopefully with a few classes and a nice warm hug, I’ll be on the right track.

PUK: By the way, where your from?

Target: I’m Puerto Rican

PUK: I see, no wonder i notice you had that salsa movement going on. Where you from in Puerto Rico?

Target: I am from Ponce

PUK: great city, I heard so much from San Juan and the Mayuguez area.

Target: Wow you know a lot about my country. How do you know so much?

PUK: Well I’m a man of adventure so I love to explore new places.

PUK: You seem like your really cool. would it be alright if we can keep in touch?

Target: Sure

PUK: Cual es tu numero de telefono?

Target: ooo you know a little spanish huh?

PUK: I try.

Number pulled

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Animals are so intresting because they look so different then us upright walking human beings. However, there are several people who strongly believes there are strong simalarites with human beings and animals. Because i find this evident, I created this animal game to kind of shift the momentum in a conversation which often make a woman smile.

Earlier this week, I was chatting with this lady in a club. We chatted from everything from favorite television shows, to most liked interest. In the mist of the conversation, I introduced the Animal game which totally threw her off, but overall she enjoyed it. Here is how it took place:

PUK: Which one would you pick? Zebra or Pig?

Target: Hmmmm ……. I guess i’ll pick the zebra

Target: What makes you ask such a question?

PUK: Well there are symbolic meanings within both animals. The pig represents wealth and greed while the zebra represents diversity. Because you picked the zebra, your a type of person who values diversity. Is that true?\

Target: wow! I actually do.

PUK: Well……I kind of figured.

This is really good if you find yourself stuck in a conversation. It works perfect because you can use that to quickly shift to the next conversation. You can pick any animal and make up some stuff about whats its symbolic meaning is.

Happy gaming!

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    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?

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Women are not science projects, they are human beings with feeling, emotions, dreams, ambitions, and some rationale. Seriously, women are reasoning, thoughtful, reflective beings and each individual woman is unique. However, all humans are living organisms. Living organisms respond to various stimuli. Overall, the laws of nature are fixed and every single living organism is bound by the simple principle of cause-and-effect.

Women just so happened to be rather complex living organisms. No matter how complex women are they still respond to stimuli and they are bound by cause-and-effect. Therefore, many questions and concerns relating to female behavior, personality, and sexuality can be explained.

 Gentlemen, there is a basic requirement that you must possess before you can unlock the mysteries of the female personality. You must possess a basic understanding of what makes females cry and what makes females happy. Sounds simple right? It is simple!

Once you have a solid understanding of what makes females cry and/or smile, then you are on your way to understanding the forces of nature. For example, men are the stimuli that have a tremendous affect on women’s emotions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and psyche. You, as an individual male, have to recognize the power of your presence on the female psyche.

 Some women think that men are saviors, and that the man’s role is to be a shield and keep them safe. This is an innate thought process that women have, especially if they grow up watching Disney movies. Unless women have been socialized differently, they cannot resist the basic primal instinct that ensures their survival. In fact, women are aroused by visual cues, olfactory cues, physical/textural stimulation, audio resonance, and of course flavors. Simply closing the physical distance between a male and a female can cause a female to feel that sense of security and intimacy (proxemics for those communication scholars).

 The combinations of stimuli are unique to each individual living organism. Not all organism will have the same reaction. When women are not responding to the stimuli that you are giving them, take that as a sign to consult The Pickup Kings.

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