Professional Conversation Starters, Business Settings(1) Describe a typical day on the job. (2) How did you come up with this idea? (3) What got you started in this industry? (4) What do you enjoy most about your profession? (5) What go you interested??? You may have to adapt the conversation starters to tailor it to the specific institution or event.

First Date Conversation Starters: (1) What do you think of the movie (Insert title)/ restaurant/ party? (2) Tell me about the best vacation you’ve ever had/taken. (3) What’s our favorite thing to do on a rainy day? (4) What was it like in the town you grew up? (5) What do you think is the perfect age??? This is just a brief sample of the massive archive of conversation starters. Adding these to your arsenal can very well make you the life of the party. Try not to sound too scripted, as if you have rehearsed. You want to be extemporaneous, come across as natural and fluid.

Public Encounters, Conversation Starters With Complete Strangers: (1) What a beautiful day. What’s your favorite season of the year? (2) Do you have any New Year’s resolutions? (3) Your lawn always looks so green. What’s your secret? (4) I like your blouse, where did you get it? (5) How do you plan to celebrate the holidays??? At a Wedding: “I was the groom’s college roommate. How do you know the couple?” At a Seminar, or Convention, or Function simply ask: “What brought you here?” At your place of work: “We’ve been working together for months now. I’d like to get to know you better. Tell me about some of your outside interests…”

As a reminder, you don’t want to sound as if you have memorized lines of a script. When you speak, you don’t want to sound as if you are reading. You have to be creative, take these ideas and modify them to suit your personality, demeanor, and self-image. Most of all be natural. I have just provided an incomplete sample list from over a hundred icebreakers, conversation starters, and situational comments. I have a lot more that I have collected over the year, and some of them are truly priceless. Above are a few completely free of charge. Enjoy and practice the game wisely.

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Women are not science projects, they are human beings with feeling, emotions, dreams, ambitions, and some rationale. Seriously, women are reasoning, thoughtful, reflective beings and each individual woman is unique. However, all humans are living organisms. Living organisms respond to various stimuli. Overall, the laws of nature are fixed and every single living organism is bound by the simple principle of cause-and-effect.

Women just so happened to be rather complex living organisms. No matter how complex women are they still respond to stimuli and they are bound by cause-and-effect. Therefore, many questions and concerns relating to female behavior, personality, and sexuality can be explained.

 Gentlemen, there is a basic requirement that you must possess before you can unlock the mysteries of the female personality. You must possess a basic understanding of what makes females cry and what makes females happy. Sounds simple right? It is simple!

Once you have a solid understanding of what makes females cry and/or smile, then you are on your way to understanding the forces of nature. For example, men are the stimuli that have a tremendous affect on women’s emotions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and psyche. You, as an individual male, have to recognize the power of your presence on the female psyche.

 Some women think that men are saviors, and that the man’s role is to be a shield and keep them safe. This is an innate thought process that women have, especially if they grow up watching Disney movies. Unless women have been socialized differently, they cannot resist the basic primal instinct that ensures their survival. In fact, women are aroused by visual cues, olfactory cues, physical/textural stimulation, audio resonance, and of course flavors. Simply closing the physical distance between a male and a female can cause a female to feel that sense of security and intimacy (proxemics for those communication scholars).

 The combinations of stimuli are unique to each individual living organism. Not all organism will have the same reaction. When women are not responding to the stimuli that you are giving them, take that as a sign to consult The Pickup Kings.

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Let’s face it, online dating is becoming more popular. For instance, the Stanford Institute for the Quantitative Study of Society found that as Internet use grows, Americans report spending less time in face-to-face interactions. 86% of college students are internet users. Technology is changing the world around us. Daily, couples are meeting online and exchanging e-mails, via chat rooms, newsgroups, instant messaging, and blogging. Anytime, day or night women are actively searching for amusement from a male companion. An abundant amount of women are now accessible through the world wide web. Because of the nature of the internet, dating has taken on new forms, and is played by different rules.

Courting a woman (singular) or attracting women (plural) no longer requires fancy clothes, cologne, a small gift, and a restaurant. Your ability to attract women is based off of your ability to strike an engaging conversation. Engaging topics, engaging questions, amusing comments, and witty humor are the essential qualities. Interestingly, I met a young woman in Barnes & Nobles book store a couple of months ago. She was deeply concentrating on her books and looked like she didn’t want to be disturbed. I saw her curriculum and noticed she was studying for med school, so I had to make contact with her. When I introduced myself as a college student passionate about learning, she opened up to me and began to talk. She was under a lot of stress from the pressure of exams and deadlines and wasn’t interested in a relationship, so instead of giving me her phone number, she gave me her e-mail address.

After e-mailing back an forth a few times she insisted that I subscribe to MSN Messenger so we could instant message one another (Hint: it is important to establish a personalized online text color like blue Arial or purple Times New Roman). After about a week of showing unrelenting interest she decided to take our seemingly trivial fling to the next level. She finally gave me her phone number and we had 30 minute conversations here, and 1 hour conversations there, and another 45 minute conversation here. The phone conversations was some sort of trust building fiasco where she was pretty much studying me and trying to get a sense of a predictable behavior pattern. Basically, cautious women want to know for sure that they are not about to go out on a date alone with a stranger who could be a complete psycho.

My college accent, scientific jargon, sophisticated vernacular, plus a mixture of colloquial slang was perfectly adapted to suit the med school student (formal language is NOT always appropriate). Fortunately, I’m linguistically gifted. Everything that came out of my mouth established my identity as a safe, trustworthy, and adventurous guy. She was the first one to propose that we go out on a date (Caution: an immediate request to “go out” may be met with disapproval and garnish a negative response). Our first date was really low key and inexpensive. We simply hooked up at the same Barnes & Noble book store, chatted for a while about stressing over school work, left to get ice cream, then took a walk around the busy shopping plaza and talked.

Our date lasted for three or four hours and we went our separate ways. That very same night we talked on the phone until sunrise. She simply would not let me get off of the phone. By the time it was 2 a.m. in the morning, the sexual tension was high. Our conversation went in all types of weird unpredictable directions. On our next date, a couple of days later, it was history in the making. My main point is, more and more people are starting relationships online. Myspace, Friendster, BlackPlanet, Facebook, SMS text messaging, ect, ect. College students especially use the internet as a tool to meet people. And as a tip, college students love diversity and are extremely open minded and are willing to try new things.

College students are curious, daring, and just broke the oppressive shackles of home life. Mom & Dad are no where around to supervise them so they have unlimited freedom and no inhibitions. The combination of an open curious mind and no parental supervision leads to endless possibilities. However, if you are planning to use the internet, you must have good words, a strong imagination, and know all the popular topics of conversation. Almost 60 percent of the American public have reported that they spend more time on the internet and less time with friends and family. People have finally found a way to meet people without immediately being judge on their looks. Although, webcams are becoming more popular…

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My name is Kinglal and I am a qualified relationship counselor, but that service isn’t in demand. First, you must be in a relationship to receive relationship advice. I’m anxious to help, but there are too many single people out there going to bed at night alone. I graduated from college thinking I was going to pursue a career in couples counseling, instead, I’m now committed to match making.

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Let me help the poor soul who works so hard that he’s forgotten how to have fun. Let me help that wall flower in the club who won’t approach any women. Let me help that incredibly brave guy who’s not afraid to talk to women but never has anything good to say. Let me help that 24-year-old video game junkie who hasn’t been on a date since his thirteenth birthday. Let me help the morbidly shy guy who wants to be respectful of women yet wants to have sex. Let me help the overly confident numb skull who makes women feel uncomfortable because he comes on too strong. Let me help you loosen up and set the mood. Let me help you overcome those demons. Demons is the term we like to use referring to that negative internal dialogue. That voice in your head that cripples you. Its much deeper than that conscious voice that you use when you psyche yourself out. We’re talking about that uncooperative, counter-productive, debilitating, dysfunctional internal drive that prevents you from rising to the occasion. In Other Words You can’t hit a home run without taking a swing. There are three bases to cover before you can slide into home and score. Although I’m using baseball metaphors, I’m undoubtedly talking about women. What is your batting record? - King Lal

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We were inspired to create this community when our 23 year old friend complained that he has never been with a woman! Shocker, right? Considering we’re in California, the Bay Area 2008. You can’t trip and fall without landing on top of a woman. The ratio of single women to single men is at a record high and yet he has the most difficult time attracting women. Unforturnately, our friend isn’t alone in this uncomfortable position. There are many adults who are involuntary virgins or are involuntaraly undersexed. This website is here to help. Take advantage of a team of qualified researchers who will provide effective strategies on improving your game. Combine our years of experience meeting women and it totals to over 60 years of wisdom. We are willing to reveal our secrets. Available to you are: (1) Conversation starters (2) Tips on First Dates (3) Success Stories (4) Laws of attraction (5) Managing Your Appearance and more…

We will help you get women. Unless you have erectile dysfunction, we will help you get women. Our team of researchers are working around the clock compiling information on what women want. Our team is in the streets talking to the public so we can provide Free advice on performance pressures, being lost for words, ice breakers, uncomfortable silence, and getting phone numbers

- King Lal

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Although there’s no smoke and mirrors involved some people say it is magic. How else can you possibly describe the power of love? Well, skeptics choose to describe it as luck; however, I like to think of it as astronomical. You don’t have to be an astrologist to understand the forces at work when a guy meets a girl, although it helps. Let’s get to the point… People are attracted to one another but we don’t always get what we want. The only thing interfering with nature taking its designed course is human intervention. Some how our brains don’t operate in our favor and we fail at making connections. It is important to address the reasons behind failing to make connections.

With the help of my colleagues, researchers, volunteer consultants, and the participating public, I will provide today’s popular outlook about relationships. Stay up-to-date with the most effective approaches to meeting people and current success stories. This website will shed light into what women want… Expectations…. Performance pressures… First time meeting an attractive person…. And more.

Welcome to The Pickup Kings, now serving the Bay Area.-King Lal

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