The Pickup Kings

Playing the friend is a very tactile approach to winning the girl/s you want. The reason being is these ladies are constantly approached by men, and while these men might be great pick up artist, they make the fatal mistake of being to direct which makes it a lot easier for the lady not to answer her phone when he calls her again. While playing the friend role may seem like its a cop out, think of it like this, once you get to know the girl and she appreciates your presence, it would be a lot harder for her to release you after being her friend’, compared to a random guy who tells her how beautiful she is and how much he wants to be with her.

Here is some key openers for opening and closing for in regards to Friend game: (After the club)

PUK: Did you like the DJ tonight?  The music was alright but I didn’t like how he mixed it.

Target: I personally thought he was alright but hey, that’s my opinion.

PUK: On a better note, My name is Hajji and you?

Target: My name is Nicole

Puk: Pinch me if I’m wrong but you seem like a kind of girl who enjoys long walks on the beach. Is this true.

Target: Well, I do like the beach but i can do without the long walks which means i owe you a pinch.

PUK: Hahaha well most times my intuitions are accurate. Even Micheal Jordan misses shots.

Puk: You seem really cool. I would love to keep you as a friend so we can continue a good chat or two about things other then long walks on sandy beaches.

Target: You seem great and all, but I just got out of a relationship.

PUK: That’s fine. Before you be anything with anyone, you have to be a friend right? That was my intentions all along. To be your friend.

Target: Alright but only as friends…. Here is my number. Give me a ring.

Break down:

Although she gave me her number, being her friend has the possibility of opening many doors including a love life. First and foremost, you have to let the girl know that there is attraction between you and her, but friendship is what your after.

When it time to hang out, display your best qualities. Once this happens, she will admire that and when the time is ripe, the door will open for you.

Don’t be to aggressive. You will chase the butterfly away.

-Hajji

Hello, my name is Hajji and I want to tell you about me.  When I was a kid, my friends and I would roam the city in search of fun and excitement. These activities included hanging out at shopping malls, movie theaters, etc, etc. As we began to blossom into teenagers, our ideas of fun were shifting from just hanging out with the boys to being around the ladies. Because we were all scared to talk to woman, we would dare one another to talk to a pretty girl, and if the person didn’t do it, they would be looked upon as a sissy or scared of girls.

Playing this game of Truth or dare had a profound impact on the evolution of my own tactics. It gave me a sense of confidence which allowed me to overcome my fears of rejection by talking to random strangers, fostering good relationships with them and ultimately becoming an important lover in their lives. Things were good in middle school but as I reached High school, I began to second guess my abilities because of the wide breadth of ages and types of people I was surrounded with.

As I began to adapt to the area, I noticed it wasn’t to much different from when I was in middle school except the girls were more prone to dating athletic guys that got all of the perks from everyone in school instead of the quiet guys that sit in the front of the classroom. I wasn’t the athletic jock who sat in the back of the classroom making most of the jocks and making the girls giggle, but I also wasn’t the kid that sat in the front of the classroom. I was kind of in the middle. I was the kid who made friends with the ‘geeks’ and the jocks which gave me a favorable position amongst girls who had crushes on guys that fit both of those categories.

While in college, the tactics remain the same except it’s more about the personality then anything else. I also noticed that being assertive, charismatic, and charming, I was able to get any girl I desired. I’m not saying I was able to bag every girl that I though was hot but having the ability and tools to go out there to show my worth, and get results. Through posting here, I hope to share some of the insight I’ve gathered throughout my years

Welcome to The Pick Up Kings

-Hajji

Who are you?

It’s more than a question, it is your defining question. Who. Are. You. What do you represent. Why should you matter. What do you bring to the table. What do you want from life. What do you want from the people around you.

Everyone has different answers to the questions posed above, but it is through exploring the answers to the questions that people can foster an appreciation for who they are and an acknowledgement of where they want to go.

I’ve met too many people in the so-called community that have a flawed, goal oriented mind-set. Tactically they go out into ‘the field’, approach, open, and close mechanically, without really understanding what’s going on beneath. They use specific tools like canned openers, borrowed stories, and forced touches in an attempt to arrive at a destination in which they are not adequately prepared to arrive at.

I’ll be the first to tell you, it’s easy to close numbers. I’ll also be the first to tell you, numbers aren’t shit. It took me a long time to realize this because I had a flawed goal oriented mind-set. I was using tools which yes, worked, but no, didn’t bring me the results I wanted. To put it simply, I hit a wall and for the longest time didn’t understand why. It was only through reflection, introspection, and serious contemplation that and answer emerged… I didn’t know who I was. I didn’t know what I represented. I didn’t know why I should matter. I didn’t know what I brought from the table. I was unclear on what I wanted from life, and most importantly, in terms of ‘the pick-up’, I didn’t know what I wanted from the people around me.

Answering those questions has been a journey, but through the exploration of those questions, I’ve been moved closer to where I wanted to be. No longer simply an ‘artist’ masquerading as a Pro, I’ve moved closer to becoming a Pick Up King.

Who are you?

-Profit

My name is Kinglal and I am a qualified relationship counselor, but that service isn’t in demand. First, you must be in a relationship to receive relationship advice. I’m anxious to help, but there are too many single people out there going to bed at night alone. I graduated from college thinking I was going to pursue a career in couples counseling, instead, I’m now committed to match making.

Let Me Help

Let me help the poor soul who works so hard that he’s forgotten how to have fun. Let me help that wall flower in the club who won’t approach any women. Let me help that incredibly brave guy who’s not afraid to talk to women but never has anything good to say. Let me help that 24-year-old video game junkie who hasn’t been on a date since his thirteenth birthday. Let me help the morbidly shy guy who wants to be respectful of women yet wants to have sex. Let me help the overly confident numb skull who makes women feel uncomfortable because he comes on too strong. Let me help you loosen up and set the mood. Let me help you overcome those demons. Demons is the term we like to use referring to that negative internal dialogue. That voice in your head that cripples you. Its much deeper than that conscious voice that you use when you psyche yourself out. We’re talking about that uncooperative, counter-productive, debilitating, dysfunctional internal drive that prevents you from rising to the occasion. In Other Words You can’t hit a home run without taking a swing. There are three bases to cover before you can slide into home and score. Although I’m using baseball metaphors, I’m undoubtedly talking about women. What is your batting record? - King Lal

We were inspired to create this community when our 23 year old friend complained that he has never been with a woman! Shocker, right? Considering we’re in California, the Bay Area 2008. You can’t trip and fall without landing on top of a woman. The ratio of single women to single men is at a record high and yet he has the most difficult time attracting women. Unforturnately, our friend isn’t alone in this uncomfortable position. There are many adults who are involuntary virgins or are involuntaraly undersexed. This website is here to help. Take advantage of a team of qualified researchers who will provide effective strategies on improving your game. Combine our years of experience meeting women and it totals to over 60 years of wisdom. We are willing to reveal our secrets. Available to you are: (1) Conversation starters (2) Tips on First Dates (3) Success Stories (4) Laws of attraction (5) Managing Your Appearance and more…

We will help you get women. Unless you have erectile dysfunction, we will help you get women. Our team of researchers are working around the clock compiling information on what women want. Our team is in the streets talking to the public so we can provide Free advice on performance pressures, being lost for words, ice breakers, uncomfortable silence, and getting phone numbers

- King Lal

When a man decides to approach a woman, he must be fully equipped with the necessary tools that will help him stand out from the rest of the men in the jungle. These tools consist of personality traits and devices like courage, humor, quick wit, and independence. While a lucky few were bestowed with these gifts at birth, most of us need to work to develop them. Once these skills are honed there is a greater chance that you will get the results you are looking for. The formula is very simple, and the results speak for themselves.

These tools apply not only to ‘the pick up’, but all conversations you have in life, both professional and personal. It’s important to keep this in mind as you grow and develop these skills and become fully actualized.

- Hajji

Although there’s no smoke and mirrors involved some people say it is magic. How else can you possibly describe the power of love? Well, skeptics choose to describe it as luck; however, I like to think of it as astronomical. You don’t have to be an astrologist to understand the forces at work when a guy meets a girl, although it helps. Let’s get to the point… People are attracted to one another but we don’t always get what we want. The only thing interfering with nature taking its designed course is human intervention. Some how our brains don’t operate in our favor and we fail at making connections. It is important to address the reasons behind failing to make connections.

With the help of my colleagues, researchers, volunteer consultants, and the participating public, I will provide today’s popular outlook about relationships. Stay up-to-date with the most effective approaches to meeting people and current success stories. This website will shed light into what women want… Expectations…. Performance pressures… First time meeting an attractive person…. And more.

Welcome to The Pickup Kings, now serving the Bay Area.-King Lal