It’s always good to have friends in the entertainment business but I believe that the strategy of trying to become good friends with the bouncer at the front door is overdone/over hype. The thing is most guys (and girls) think that the guy outside checking ID or holding up the ropes has the power. He doesn’t. He’s just the first line of defense. Hell I’ve had times in the past where the door bouncer has explicitly told me that I would not be let in a club only to be overruled by someone who has more power than him. If you go to a club often enough the bouncer will eventually know you and let you in without a hassle but don’t waste time when you’re new to a venue trying to be best buddies with the guy at the door.

The Guy with the Clipboard is your friend
The guy with the clipboard is the guy that you want to befriend. Depending on the size of the venue he is either a low or mid level promoter that actually gets paid from the number of people inside the club. Naturally his incentives to let his regulars in quickly and without hassle are in line (no pun intended) with yours of getting into the club. This is the guy that you want to befriend. Use the following questions to get him to identify you as a possible long term ‘customer’ party go-er.
•    Hey man, what promotion company is throwing this party
•    How often do you guys throw the party here
•    I was here with some girls last week and brought my friends this week, you guys throw great parties man
•    Where else do you guys promote
•    Do you guys have a guestlist? Where can I  sign up?
•    I’m throwing a party in a month or two for my friend’s bday, do you have a card, I’m thinking about getting bottle service
•    Do you have a myspace or facebook where I can hear about your upcoming events
•    Do you guys have a mailing list when you send out information about your upcoming events

To a promoter all these things are music to their ears. Once a promoter gets to know that you’re down to come, party, and have a good time, they’ll be jumping to insure that and your friends get into the club in a swift manner.

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So you dropped your killer opener, it flies marvelously, you scan the set and engage your target by asking-

“So… where are you guys coming from tonight”
or
“So… what do you do”

All of a sudden your target seems less engaged and eye codes to her friends for an out…

I’m sure many of us have noticed a sizable drop in energy when a conversation shifts from the observational (this DJ sucks) or the theoretical (who lies more guys or girls) to something more pedestrian like what do you do, or where do you work.

Why?

For the most part, people go out to get away from their day to day, directly asking a prospect about her school, background, or career early in the engagement is total buzz kill, especially, as is often the case, what she does is not what she’s passionate about. Not only that, but questions like these telegraph too much interest. Why should you care about where she came from or what she does? At this point in the pick-up all that matters is that she’s right in front of you having a conversation with you. These questions should be reserved for later on in the pick-up after attraction is generated and the focus shifts from manufacturing interest to generating comfort and rapport.

Instead of moving to these logical, yet unimportant questions your focus your energies on creating a party atmosphere. Your goal during the early pick up should be to generate interest and/or intrigue. Stack your set with a game (e.g strawberry fields, five questions), a challenge/banter (negs, friendly teasing, joking), or a cold read (e.g. Ring or palm reading). Continue stacking hard until you start getting the indicators of interest that suggest she’s ready for rapport building and seduction.

If anything SHE should be the one that switches the tone of the conversation from the party atmosphere to the mundane interview questions signifying HER interest in getting to know the puppet master behind the strings.
-Profit

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Playing the friend is a very tactile approach to winning the girl/s you want. The reason being is these ladies are constantly approached by men, and while these men might be great pick up artist, they make the fatal mistake of being to direct which makes it a lot easier for the lady not to answer her phone when he calls her again. While playing the friend role may seem like its a cop out, think of it like this, once you get to know the girl and she appreciates your presence, it would be a lot harder for her to release you after being her friend’, compared to a random guy who tells her how beautiful she is and how much he wants to be with her.

Here is some key openers for opening and closing for in regards to Friend game: (After the club)

PUK: Did you like the DJ tonight?  The music was alright but I didn’t like how he mixed it.

Target: I personally thought he was alright but hey, that’s my opinion.

PUK: On a better note, My name is Hajji and you?

Target: My name is Nicole

Puk: Pinch me if I’m wrong but you seem like a kind of girl who enjoys long walks on the beach. Is this true.

Target: Well, I do like the beach but i can do without the long walks which means i owe you a pinch.

PUK: Hahaha well most times my intuitions are accurate. Even Micheal Jordan misses shots.

Puk: You seem really cool. I would love to keep you as a friend so we can continue a good chat or two about things other then long walks on sandy beaches.

Target: You seem great and all, but I just got out of a relationship.

PUK: That’s fine. Before you be anything with anyone, you have to be a friend right? That was my intentions all along. To be your friend.

Target: Alright but only as friends…. Here is my number. Give me a ring.

Break down:

Although she gave me her number, being her friend has the possibility of opening many doors including a love life. First and foremost, you have to let the girl know that there is attraction between you and her, but friendship is what your after.

When it time to hang out, display your best qualities. Once this happens, she will admire that and when the time is ripe, the door will open for you.

Don’t be to aggressive. You will chase the butterfly away.

-Hajji

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The 10 Commandements Of The Pickup Community

1. Respect the process of picking up woman because your mistakes can be costly to the next player.
2. Never tell your girlfriends about the tricks you used against them
3. If your just talking to a girl without being her boyfriend, never talk shit about the other people shes talking to. Instead, show more value and she’ll respect you more.
4. Dress with dignity and pride
5. To not buy any girl a drink without having at lease 15 minutes of conversations. (although im kind of hesitant unless im sure I see potential.)
6. Do not fuck or try to game your friends girlfriends or prospects
7. Staying well groomed for the best results
8. Never using corny pickup lines thats found by googling (pickuplines) trust me, ladies do the same thing.
9. illustrate the highest values
10. Never appear jeoulous to someone you just met. Thats just weak.

Hajji

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    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?

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Women are not science projects, they are human beings with feeling, emotions, dreams, ambitions, and some rationale. Seriously, women are reasoning, thoughtful, reflective beings and each individual woman is unique. However, all humans are living organisms. Living organisms respond to various stimuli. Overall, the laws of nature are fixed and every single living organism is bound by the simple principle of cause-and-effect.

Women just so happened to be rather complex living organisms. No matter how complex women are they still respond to stimuli and they are bound by cause-and-effect. Therefore, many questions and concerns relating to female behavior, personality, and sexuality can be explained.

 Gentlemen, there is a basic requirement that you must possess before you can unlock the mysteries of the female personality. You must possess a basic understanding of what makes females cry and what makes females happy. Sounds simple right? It is simple!

Once you have a solid understanding of what makes females cry and/or smile, then you are on your way to understanding the forces of nature. For example, men are the stimuli that have a tremendous affect on women’s emotions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and psyche. You, as an individual male, have to recognize the power of your presence on the female psyche.

 Some women think that men are saviors, and that the man’s role is to be a shield and keep them safe. This is an innate thought process that women have, especially if they grow up watching Disney movies. Unless women have been socialized differently, they cannot resist the basic primal instinct that ensures their survival. In fact, women are aroused by visual cues, olfactory cues, physical/textural stimulation, audio resonance, and of course flavors. Simply closing the physical distance between a male and a female can cause a female to feel that sense of security and intimacy (proxemics for those communication scholars).

 The combinations of stimuli are unique to each individual living organism. Not all organism will have the same reaction. When women are not responding to the stimuli that you are giving them, take that as a sign to consult The Pickup Kings.

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Who are you?

It’s more than a question, it is your defining question. Who. Are. You. What do you represent. Why should you matter. What do you bring to the table. What do you want from life. What do you want from the people around you.

Everyone has different answers to the questions posed above, but it is through exploring the answers to the questions that people can foster an appreciation for who they are and an acknowledgement of where they want to go.

I’ve met too many people in the so-called community that have a flawed, goal oriented mind-set. Tactically they go out into ‘the field’, approach, open, and close mechanically, without really understanding what’s going on beneath. They use specific tools like canned openers, borrowed stories, and forced touches in an attempt to arrive at a destination in which they are not adequately prepared to arrive at.

I’ll be the first to tell you, it’s easy to close numbers. I’ll also be the first to tell you, numbers aren’t shit. It took me a long time to realize this because I had a flawed goal oriented mind-set. I was using tools which yes, worked, but no, didn’t bring me the results I wanted. To put it simply, I hit a wall and for the longest time didn’t understand why. It was only through reflection, introspection, and serious contemplation that and answer emerged… I didn’t know who I was. I didn’t know what I represented. I didn’t know why I should matter. I didn’t know what I brought from the table. I was unclear on what I wanted from life, and most importantly, in terms of ‘the pick-up’, I didn’t know what I wanted from the people around me.

Answering those questions has been a journey, but through the exploration of those questions, I’ve been moved closer to where I wanted to be. No longer simply an ‘artist’ masquerading as a Pro, I’ve moved closer to becoming a Pick Up King.

Who are you?

-Profit

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We were inspired to create this community when our 23 year old friend complained that he has never been with a woman! Shocker, right? Considering we’re in California, the Bay Area 2008. You can’t trip and fall without landing on top of a woman. The ratio of single women to single men is at a record high and yet he has the most difficult time attracting women. Unforturnately, our friend isn’t alone in this uncomfortable position. There are many adults who are involuntary virgins or are involuntaraly undersexed. This website is here to help. Take advantage of a team of qualified researchers who will provide effective strategies on improving your game. Combine our years of experience meeting women and it totals to over 60 years of wisdom. We are willing to reveal our secrets. Available to you are: (1) Conversation starters (2) Tips on First Dates (3) Success Stories (4) Laws of attraction (5) Managing Your Appearance and more…

We will help you get women. Unless you have erectile dysfunction, we will help you get women. Our team of researchers are working around the clock compiling information on what women want. Our team is in the streets talking to the public so we can provide Free advice on performance pressures, being lost for words, ice breakers, uncomfortable silence, and getting phone numbers

- King Lal

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When a man decides to approach a woman, he must be fully equipped with the necessary tools that will help him stand out from the rest of the men in the jungle. These tools consist of personality traits and devices like courage, humor, quick wit, and independence. While a lucky few were bestowed with these gifts at birth, most of us need to work to develop them. Once these skills are honed there is a greater chance that you will get the results you are looking for. The formula is very simple, and the results speak for themselves.

These tools apply not only to ‘the pick up’, but all conversations you have in life, both professional and personal. It’s important to keep this in mind as you grow and develop these skills and become fully actualized.

- Hajji

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Although there’s no smoke and mirrors involved some people say it is magic. How else can you possibly describe the power of love? Well, skeptics choose to describe it as luck; however, I like to think of it as astronomical. You don’t have to be an astrologist to understand the forces at work when a guy meets a girl, although it helps. Let’s get to the point… People are attracted to one another but we don’t always get what we want. The only thing interfering with nature taking its designed course is human intervention. Some how our brains don’t operate in our favor and we fail at making connections. It is important to address the reasons behind failing to make connections.

With the help of my colleagues, researchers, volunteer consultants, and the participating public, I will provide today’s popular outlook about relationships. Stay up-to-date with the most effective approaches to meeting people and current success stories. This website will shed light into what women want… Expectations…. Performance pressures… First time meeting an attractive person…. And more.

Welcome to The Pickup Kings, now serving the Bay Area.-King Lal

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