Picking up ladies at a cafe can be very easy if you do not come off as awkward. What I mean by coming across as awkward is looking at her weird, than saying hello without a strong follow-up. Or starring at her for a very long time before you eventually have enough courage to introduce yourself which can also be awkward if you been starring at her for a very long time. The key in this situation is when you see a lady you like, you quickly Strategize a good way to capture her attention without looking at her. This process should take no longer than 45 seconds to a minute. Once you figured out your strategy, make sure you make your presence is felt by being confident, making eye contact, and flashing an occasional smile. Below will be a few proven strategies that I’ve used to capture ladies attention at coffee shops.

- That looks like a pretty interesting book, I believe I’ve  read something similar to this while I was in college. My name is Hajji by the way. What’s yours?

- I must say that I really love your makeup. Do you do it yourself or you got it done professionally? My name is Hajji and you?

- You look like a really smart girl that loves to read a good book. Do you have any good recomendations on a good read? My name is hajji.

It is extremely important that after you make contact, you keep the conversation going by staying as interesting as possible. Because this is a cafe type setting, you don’t want to conversate for to long unless she insists.

Good luck players!

-Hajji

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While traveling abroad there will be two types of girls you would be engaged with. 1. Gringos (which is anyone who is not from the country your visiting,) 2. Local woman who actually live in the country. Gringo woman along with the locals are looking for something they are not used  to and that’s your confidence, style, taste, and of course your money if that’s what you have to offer. Myself personally, I’m not the kind of Pick Up Artist who will offer a woman some money to show me a good time. However, what I would do is use my wealth along with my knowledge of the game to spark strong curiosity of what I’m all about which usually lead to them coming home with me. In this post I will describe the necessary tools to help you get laid while your enjoying your great vacation in South America or any other Latin American country.

Local woman in Latin America loves and adores a man who speaks the English language. English to them represents power, prestige, and perhaps wealth because clearly your in their country. Having this in mind, it is up to you to have a basic foundation of their language to engage them. Not saying you have to be completely fluent, but enough to introduce yourself, ask her name, and how you can get in touch with her. After you established yourself, ask her if she understand a few words in English. Of course the average chick is going to say no, or they may understand a few words which could put you in the drivers seat for success depending on how you work your cards. After your conversation depending on where you are, (club, bar, or street) you should ask for her number depending on her proficiency in English, or if she’s not, ask what she’s doing that very night so you can get the ball rolling. While meeting up with your local lady, I strongly recommend meeting at a dance club because the language barrier could be to much if your going out for a regular drink at the bar. Once your at the dance club, make sure you can impress her enough with your dance moves. After a few dances, with enough eye contact, you should find yourself making out and possibly taking her home if your assertive enough.

Gringo woman often travel in packs of 2’s 3’s or sometimes solo. They usually come from Europe, Australia, and once and a while the United States. These ladies can be found at hostels, hotels, and once and a while the party your attending. If you want want to know for sure where the gringos going to hangout for the night, I recommend finding a popular hostel and see where people are going.  The advantage of getting to know gringos are they most likely speak English. This can be extremely easy on your part if your trying to score an easy home-run. Although the two of you may be united in language, you still have to go through the process of using the game to get what you want. While pursing the gringo, I strongly recommend going out as a group to a bar or a dance floor filled party so you can put yourself in a winning position. While in the bar or club, make sure your assertive, not creepy, and acting as if your really intrested in what she has to say and before you know it, you should be making out with your new gringo lady. Don’t stop with just a simple make out, keep your hands and mind moving, and before you know it, you will be at some hotel banging it out.

Yours truly

Hajji

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House parties are by far the easiest places to score with chicks. Because these environments are filled with people that know one another, opening up a set is easy. Keep in mind that when you do attempt to approach a girl, make sure your attitude, demeanor, and posture are ‘one’. This element is important because there tends to be tight spaces to operate in depending on the size of the house. If these elements are not in place, it will be very easy for a lady to overlook you, and talk to the next guy that have the amazing personality.

Bare in mind that woman loved to be talked to in house parties. Ugly or very beautiful they want to be seen with somebody talking to them. Here’s a scenario that happened last weekend at a college party I was at-

PUK- For some reason I really love your shoes, do you mind if I ask where you got them?

Chick- I got them at ____________. And guess what, I only got them for $20.

PUK- Wow are you serious! I guess I know what to get my mom for her birthday this Saturday. My name is Hajji by the way whats yours?

Chick- My name is mellisa.

PUK- I really admire a woman with good taste.

Chick- Thank you

Puk- So how do you like to spend your free time?

Chick- I like to read, drink coffee, and once and a while party.

PUK- What a coincidence, I do as well. How about we exchange numbers so I can buy you my favorite blended coffee.

Chick- No problem.

-Hajji

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Professional Conversation Starters, Business Settings(1) Describe a typical day on the job. (2) How did you come up with this idea? (3) What got you started in this industry? (4) What do you enjoy most about your profession? (5) What go you interested??? You may have to adapt the conversation starters to tailor it to the specific institution or event.

First Date Conversation Starters: (1) What do you think of the movie (Insert title)/ restaurant/ party? (2) Tell me about the best vacation you’ve ever had/taken. (3) What’s our favorite thing to do on a rainy day? (4) What was it like in the town you grew up? (5) What do you think is the perfect age??? This is just a brief sample of the massive archive of conversation starters. Adding these to your arsenal can very well make you the life of the party. Try not to sound too scripted, as if you have rehearsed. You want to be extemporaneous, come across as natural and fluid.

Public Encounters, Conversation Starters With Complete Strangers: (1) What a beautiful day. What’s your favorite season of the year? (2) Do you have any New Year’s resolutions? (3) Your lawn always looks so green. What’s your secret? (4) I like your blouse, where did you get it? (5) How do you plan to celebrate the holidays??? At a Wedding: “I was the groom’s college roommate. How do you know the couple?” At a Seminar, or Convention, or Function simply ask: “What brought you here?” At your place of work: “We’ve been working together for months now. I’d like to get to know you better. Tell me about some of your outside interests…”

As a reminder, you don’t want to sound as if you have memorized lines of a script. When you speak, you don’t want to sound as if you are reading. You have to be creative, take these ideas and modify them to suit your personality, demeanor, and self-image. Most of all be natural. I have just provided an incomplete sample list from over a hundred icebreakers, conversation starters, and situational comments. I have a lot more that I have collected over the year, and some of them are truly priceless. Above are a few completely free of charge. Enjoy and practice the game wisely.

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Lets be clear. When you have a prospect on deck there has to be a good connection between the two in order for you to hit it on the first date. What works for me is when I take a girl out to a full date (dinner, bowling, etc,) I demonstrate a lot of value by making her laugh, making her feel comfortable , and listening to the various stupid shit that woman like to talk about. After were done hanging out, I ask them if they would be intrested in watching a movie or something at my house. Once their at my place, this is the steps I take in making magic happen.

1. Making sure the room is nice and clean. Before i even leave my house going on a date, I make sure my place is clean because i know its a great chance i’ll be asking them to come.

2. Being patient. Dont be so thirsty because you got some pussy in your room. Relax a bit. laugh with her and share a couple of jokes. After shes feeling loose and comfortable, take her to a place where theres privacy such as a room or something.

3. The Movie- From there, proceed to putting on a movie preferbily something that would grab her attention. IE no American Pie. Put on something with a little bit of action maybe some with some sex.

4. Move 1. Den the lights. Once the lights is denned, make sure you move close to her so theres some friction happening.

5. Move 2. Put your arm around her slowly. From this point on, if shes really comfortable with you, she’ll embrace it. Once she embraces that arm, its on.

6. Move 3. Go for the kiss. Once the kiss is estblished, and if your good, her body will be hot as hell and the temperture will be rising.

7. Move 4. Lastly, kiss on the neck and offer to go for a massage and from that point on, you should know what to do.

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For one reason or another, a lot of woman try to use the phrase “I have a boyfriend” to get you to stop talking to them. Based on trial and error, I discovered the best way to combat this is to simply not mention her relationship stuatus during the course of a conversation, and simplying rebuttling her if she comes off rude by saying ” I have a boyfriend before you even get a chance to run your routine. You will suprised to find out over a course of a laugh or two that shes simply trying to filter out the trash that comes her way by using the boyfriend defense. Most men buying into that crap and simply give up. Personally if its not my friends or family girl friend, I’m going for the throat.

If your going rapid fire aka playing the number game, here is some important rebuttles just in case they use the boyfriend defense before you get a chance to run your routine.

1. Who mentioned something about a boyfriend? I’m just out trying to have a good time.

2. I didn’t ask you about your problem, however, if you need a shoulder to lean on, i’ll be more then happy to provide my side to you.

3. Do you really? thats great because I have a girlfriend. I was just approching you because you look like someone I went to school with.

4. Boyfriend huh? thats good because he stole you away from a championship team ( and you look at her like you hinting about yourself.)

-Hajji

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Approaching random woman is like approaching job employers. Their the same in the sense that your looking for something right? You wouldn’t go into a job interview wearing a shirt that says “single and loving it right? Instead you will wear something appropriate that you feel might give you a shot at working for the company. These same rules apply when talking to woman. You have to approach them dressed to impressed so when you leave that conversation, she can at lease admire your sense of style.

Believe it or not when females talk to one another, they ask plenty of questions. Depending on the girl your pursuing, she would most likely ask her friend questions about your looks, style, and confidence. Because clothes are indicators of all above, I strongly recommend you wear clothes that reflect a good sense of style, because it will let them know your confident about your style.

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Playing the friend is a very tactile approach to winning the girl/s you want. The reason being is these ladies are constantly approached by men, and while these men might be great pick up artist, they make the fatal mistake of being to direct which makes it a lot easier for the lady not to answer her phone when he calls her again. While playing the friend role may seem like its a cop out, think of it like this, once you get to know the girl and she appreciates your presence, it would be a lot harder for her to release you after being her friend’, compared to a random guy who tells her how beautiful she is and how much he wants to be with her.

Here is some key openers for opening and closing for in regards to Friend game: (After the club)

PUK: Did you like the DJ tonight?  The music was alright but I didn’t like how he mixed it.

Target: I personally thought he was alright but hey, that’s my opinion.

PUK: On a better note, My name is Hajji and you?

Target: My name is Nicole

Puk: Pinch me if I’m wrong but you seem like a kind of girl who enjoys long walks on the beach. Is this true.

Target: Well, I do like the beach but i can do without the long walks which means i owe you a pinch.

PUK: Hahaha well most times my intuitions are accurate. Even Micheal Jordan misses shots.

Puk: You seem really cool. I would love to keep you as a friend so we can continue a good chat or two about things other then long walks on sandy beaches.

Target: You seem great and all, but I just got out of a relationship.

PUK: That’s fine. Before you be anything with anyone, you have to be a friend right? That was my intentions all along. To be your friend.

Target: Alright but only as friends…. Here is my number. Give me a ring.

Break down:

Although she gave me her number, being her friend has the possibility of opening many doors including a love life. First and foremost, you have to let the girl know that there is attraction between you and her, but friendship is what your after.

When it time to hang out, display your best qualities. Once this happens, she will admire that and when the time is ripe, the door will open for you.

Don’t be to aggressive. You will chase the butterfly away.

-Hajji

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There are men out there who believes that you can get all the girls you want by using universal game. Trust me, this is completely false. For each group of woman, ethnically speaking, you have to have a certain kind of appeal to reach to them. In the case of the Latina, I will outline my great formula that should get you the results I have gotten over the years with the group of woman we all love, the Latinas.

1. It would be your best interest to understand a little something about latin music. For example, Cumbia, Raggaeton, Salsa, Etc, these are all popular latin genres that a lot of these ladies love. If they don’t if you are a famailar with a few artist and a couple of songs, you will be looked upon as someone cultural who understands them.

2. Learning a few steps in salsa. I’m not asking you to go out of your way to learn how to salsa dance. But if you know the basics steps to salsa you will get some play.

3. Be able to identify and understand somethings about their culture. Not every Latina is a Mexican. For all of the latin ladies I’ve spoken to, they were very impressed to know that I was able to identify their capital once they told me where their from. Trust me, if you are able to know a little something, it will take you a long way, I personally gureentee!

4. Learn a little Spanish! You don’t have to be a spanish expert or anything, but if you can display a few phrases, it can take you into a decent conversation.

Here is an example of this hottie i pulled on a nice 4th of july night

PUK: I see you burning it up on the dance floor, where you learn those moves from?

Target: I guess I learned from my parents

PUK: Wow, your parents taught you well, hopefully with a few classes and a nice warm hug, I’ll be on the right track.

PUK: By the way, where your from?

Target: I’m Puerto Rican

PUK: I see, no wonder i notice you had that salsa movement going on. Where you from in Puerto Rico?

Target: I am from Ponce

PUK: great city, I heard so much from San Juan and the Mayuguez area.

Target: Wow you know a lot about my country. How do you know so much?

PUK: Well I’m a man of adventure so I love to explore new places.

PUK: You seem like your really cool. would it be alright if we can keep in touch?

Target: Sure

PUK: Cual es tu numero de telefono?

Target: ooo you know a little spanish huh?

PUK: I try.

Number pulled

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The 10 Commandements Of The Pickup Community

1. Respect the process of picking up woman because your mistakes can be costly to the next player.
2. Never tell your girlfriends about the tricks you used against them
3. If your just talking to a girl without being her boyfriend, never talk shit about the other people shes talking to. Instead, show more value and she’ll respect you more.
4. Dress with dignity and pride
5. To not buy any girl a drink without having at lease 15 minutes of conversations. (although im kind of hesitant unless im sure I see potential.)
6. Do not fuck or try to game your friends girlfriends or prospects
7. Staying well groomed for the best results
8. Never using corny pickup lines thats found by googling (pickuplines) trust me, ladies do the same thing.
9. illustrate the highest values
10. Never appear jeoulous to someone you just met. Thats just weak.

Hajji

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