While traveling abroad there will be two types of girls you would be engaged with. 1. Gringos (which is anyone who is not from the country your visiting,) 2. Local woman who actually live in the country. Gringo woman along with the locals are looking for something they are not used  to and that’s your confidence, style, taste, and of course your money if that’s what you have to offer. Myself personally, I’m not the kind of Pick Up Artist who will offer a woman some money to show me a good time. However, what I would do is use my wealth along with my knowledge of the game to spark strong curiosity of what I’m all about which usually lead to them coming home with me. In this post I will describe the necessary tools to help you get laid while your enjoying your great vacation in South America or any other Latin American country.

Local woman in Latin America loves and adores a man who speaks the English language. English to them represents power, prestige, and perhaps wealth because clearly your in their country. Having this in mind, it is up to you to have a basic foundation of their language to engage them. Not saying you have to be completely fluent, but enough to introduce yourself, ask her name, and how you can get in touch with her. After you established yourself, ask her if she understand a few words in English. Of course the average chick is going to say no, or they may understand a few words which could put you in the drivers seat for success depending on how you work your cards. After your conversation depending on where you are, (club, bar, or street) you should ask for her number depending on her proficiency in English, or if she’s not, ask what she’s doing that very night so you can get the ball rolling. While meeting up with your local lady, I strongly recommend meeting at a dance club because the language barrier could be to much if your going out for a regular drink at the bar. Once your at the dance club, make sure you can impress her enough with your dance moves. After a few dances, with enough eye contact, you should find yourself making out and possibly taking her home if your assertive enough.

Gringo woman often travel in packs of 2′s 3′s or sometimes solo. They usually come from Europe, Australia, and once and a while the United States. These ladies can be found at hostels, hotels, and once and a while the party your attending. If you want want to know for sure where the gringos going to hangout for the night, I recommend finding a popular hostel and see where people are going.  The advantage of getting to know gringos are they most likely speak English. This can be extremely easy on your part if your trying to score an easy home-run. Although the two of you may be united in language, you still have to go through the process of using the game to get what you want. While pursing the gringo, I strongly recommend going out as a group to a bar or a dance floor filled party so you can put yourself in a winning position. While in the bar or club, make sure your assertive, not creepy, and acting as if your really intrested in what she has to say and before you know it, you should be making out with your new gringo lady. Don’t stop with just a simple make out, keep your hands and mind moving, and before you know it, you will be at some hotel banging it out.

Yours truly

Hajji

It’s always good to have friends in the entertainment business but I believe that the strategy of trying to become good friends with the bouncer at the front door is overdone/over hype. The thing is most guys (and girls) think that the guy outside checking ID or holding up the ropes has the power. He doesn’t. He’s just the first line of defense. Hell I’ve had times in the past where the door bouncer has explicitly told me that I would not be let in a club only to be overruled by someone who has more power than him. If you go to a club often enough the bouncer will eventually know you and let you in without a hassle but don’t waste time when you’re new to a venue trying to be best buddies with the guy at the door.

The Guy with the Clipboard is your friend
The guy with the clipboard is the guy that you want to befriend. Depending on the size of the venue he is either a low or mid level promoter that actually gets paid from the number of people inside the club. Naturally his incentives to let his regulars in quickly and without hassle are in line (no pun intended) with yours of getting into the club. This is the guy that you want to befriend. Use the following questions to get him to identify you as a possible long term ‘customer’ party go-er.
•    Hey man, what promotion company is throwing this party
•    How often do you guys throw the party here
•    I was here with some girls last week and brought my friends this week, you guys throw great parties man
•    Where else do you guys promote
•    Do you guys have a guestlist? Where can I  sign up?
•    I’m throwing a party in a month or two for my friend’s bday, do you have a card, I’m thinking about getting bottle service
•    Do you have a myspace or facebook where I can hear about your upcoming events
•    Do you guys have a mailing list when you send out information about your upcoming events

To a promoter all these things are music to their ears. Once a promoter gets to know that you’re down to come, party, and have a good time, they’ll be jumping to insure that and your friends get into the club in a swift manner.

When women go out with their friends, they tend to create this illusion that their out to protect one another interest which means doing everything they can to cock-block on a guy that tries to dance with their friends. Some of the reasons why they choose to cock-block could be because for one, they are insecure of themselves, or use the classic line that “my friend has a boyfriend, therefore, you should back up and allow them to dance amongst themselves even though they are in a environment where there are several single people trying to dance. Usually this is enough for a guy to want to back away, and maybe reevaluate his options for the night. However, with the advice I offer you in this blog, you should be able to utilize the friends of females to get to the woman you want.

Women tend to feel comfortable when a confident guy penetrate their circle. If you approach a group of girls with your target set on a female, and you come of as somewhat timid, it would enable the group to seal you off because “they came to dance amongst themselves”. Once you have your sites on the lady, I would open up a small conversation with the least attractive girl in the group, and would make her feel as special as possible to earn some cheap brownie points within the group. After establishing yourself within the circle of friends, I’ll dance with the girl I initially opened with, and dance 1 song with her.
After the song is over, I’ll walk to the bar to grab a drink, which will give the ladies a short time to talk about how “cute he is” before coming back a bit more relaxed, and target the woman you initially had your eye on, and bring on that A game. Strong word of advice, as we stressed time and time again, use humor to loosen her up so she’ll loosen you up where it counts.
Good Luck!

-Hajji

Professional Conversation Starters, Business Settings(1) Describe a typical day on the job. (2) How did you come up with this idea? (3) What got you started in this industry? (4) What do you enjoy most about your profession? (5) What go you interested??? You may have to adapt the conversation starters to tailor it to the specific institution or event.

First Date Conversation Starters: (1) What do you think of the movie (Insert title)/ restaurant/ party? (2) Tell me about the best vacation you’ve ever had/taken. (3) What’s our favorite thing to do on a rainy day? (4) What was it like in the town you grew up? (5) What do you think is the perfect age??? This is just a brief sample of the massive archive of conversation starters. Adding these to your arsenal can very well make you the life of the party. Try not to sound too scripted, as if you have rehearsed. You want to be extemporaneous, come across as natural and fluid.

Public Encounters, Conversation Starters With Complete Strangers: (1) What a beautiful day. What’s your favorite season of the year? (2) Do you have any New Year’s resolutions? (3) Your lawn always looks so green. What’s your secret? (4) I like your blouse, where did you get it? (5) How do you plan to celebrate the holidays??? At a Wedding: “I was the groom’s college roommate. How do you know the couple?” At a Seminar, or Convention, or Function simply ask: “What brought you here?” At your place of work: “We’ve been working together for months now. I’d like to get to know you better. Tell me about some of your outside interests…”

As a reminder, you don’t want to sound as if you have memorized lines of a script. When you speak, you don’t want to sound as if you are reading. You have to be creative, take these ideas and modify them to suit your personality, demeanor, and self-image. Most of all be natural. I have just provided an incomplete sample list from over a hundred icebreakers, conversation starters, and situational comments. I have a lot more that I have collected over the year, and some of them are truly priceless. Above are a few completely free of charge. Enjoy and practice the game wisely.

I witnessed the effects of something that almost defied logic this weekend- The reverse cockblock.

I’m sure all of us have been in a position where someone or something gets in the way of our gaming. It could be a mother hen, jealous girlfriend, or a crappy DJ. Collectively, these obstacles are called cock blocks and they serve to hinder game by throwing sarcastic remarks, setting the wrong tone, or otherwise throw you off your game.

But what if a statement perceived as cockblock served to build more attraction? Enter the reverse cockblock.

Here’s how it works

PUA and his wing opens a set and PUA isolates his target, while his wing rolls off. PUA builds decent rapport and excuses himself (to the bathroom, to make a call, buy a drink whatever, it doesn’t matter). PUA’s Wing then swoops in and drops the following dialog:

Wing: Hey what’s up, i see you and person A are getting along (to target)
Target: Yeah, he’s cool
Wing: Well, i don’t mean to hate or anything, don’t get your hopes up, he talks to a lot of girls, and even if he gets your phone number he probably won’t call.
Target: (shocked): ook
Wing: Yeah, I’m a nice guy and you seem like you’re really into him so I’m just letting you know
Target: uhh, ok, thanks
Wing: Anyway I gotta bounce

What’s key in the reverse cock block is the reason for disqualification. In order to work, the PUA needs to be disqualified because of his ability to get and charm girls. When the interaction resumes the PUA should not direct address what the wing said unless the target brings it up. If she doesn’t bring it up and continues the dialog, it’s money, she’ll be flattered that the PUA is continuing to talk to her despite his ‘player’ reputation. Continue to game and increase attraction and close.

If she does bring it up, she’s showing insecurity and it’s a great time to qualify her. Address it head on, say something to the effect of “Yes, I do chat with a lot of girls, but there was something special about you that makes me want to talk to YOU tonight instead of anyone else here.” Move on and continue to game.

This is a FIELD TESTED technique, but it’s still in the midst of testing this at different points in the game cycle. I’ve seen this done Modified where it’s performed at the end of a cycle after the PUA #closes. This allows to have your wing increase her surprise/receptiveness when the PUA actually calls her the next day.

 
Lets be clear. When you have a prospect on deck there has to be a good connection between the two in order for you to hit it on the first date. What works for me is when I take a girl out to a full date (dinner, bowling, etc,) I demonstrate a lot of value by making her laugh, making her feel comfortable , and listening to the various stupid shit that woman like to talk about. After were done hanging out, I ask them if they would be intrested in watching a movie or something at my house. Once their at my place, this is the steps I take in making magic happen.

1. Making sure the room is nice and clean. Before i even leave my house going on a date, I make sure my place is clean because i know its a great chance i’ll be asking them to come.

2. Being patient. Dont be so thirsty because you got some pussy in your room. Relax a bit. laugh with her and share a couple of jokes. After shes feeling loose and comfortable, take her to a place where theres privacy such as a room or something.

3. The Movie- From there, proceed to putting on a movie preferbily something that would grab her attention. IE no American Pie. Put on something with a little bit of action maybe some with some sex.

4. Move 1. Den the lights. Once the lights is denned, make sure you move close to her so theres some friction happening.

5. Move 2. Put your arm around her slowly. From this point on, if shes really comfortable with you, she’ll embrace it. Once she embraces that arm, its on.

6. Move 3. Go for the kiss. Once the kiss is estblished, and if your good, her body will be hot as hell and the temperture will be rising.

7. Move 4. Lastly, kiss on the neck and offer to go for a massage and from that point on, you should know what to do.

Animals are so intresting because they look so different then us upright walking human beings. However, there are several people who strongly believes there are strong simalarites with human beings and animals. Because i find this evident, I created this animal game to kind of shift the momentum in a conversation which often make a woman smile.

Earlier this week, I was chatting with this lady in a club. We chatted from everything from favorite television shows, to most liked interest. In the mist of the conversation, I introduced the Animal game which totally threw her off, but overall she enjoyed it. Here is how it took place:

PUK: Which one would you pick? Zebra or Pig?

Target: Hmmmm ……. I guess i’ll pick the zebra

Target: What makes you ask such a question?

PUK: Well there are symbolic meanings within both animals. The pig represents wealth and greed while the zebra represents diversity. Because you picked the zebra, your a type of person who values diversity. Is that true?\

Target: wow! I actually do.

PUK: Well……I kind of figured.

This is really good if you find yourself stuck in a conversation. It works perfect because you can use that to quickly shift to the next conversation. You can pick any animal and make up some stuff about whats its symbolic meaning is.

Happy gaming!

The 10 Commandements Of The Pickup Community

1. Respect the process of picking up woman because your mistakes can be costly to the next player.
2. Never tell your girlfriends about the tricks you used against them
3. If your just talking to a girl without being her boyfriend, never talk shit about the other people shes talking to. Instead, show more value and she’ll respect you more.
4. Dress with dignity and pride
5. To not buy any girl a drink without having at lease 15 minutes of conversations. (although im kind of hesitant unless im sure I see potential.)
6. Do not fuck or try to game your friends girlfriends or prospects
7. Staying well groomed for the best results
8. Never using corny pickup lines thats found by googling (pickuplines) trust me, ladies do the same thing.
9. illustrate the highest values
10. Never appear jeoulous to someone you just met. Thats just weak.

Hajji

    We all can recall a time in which we were blew off by a woman we felt was as beautiful as the sunrise right? In most cases it was probably something as simple as saying ‘hello how are you?’ and the woman looks gives off that look as if shes seeing a terrorist or something. As a man who loves approching and scoring with several woman, I come to the conclusion that the attitudes that these beautiful woman display are a result of men constantly praising their attributes which gives them the idea that their on top of the world. Because I often hear about these stories, I developed a system that would throw off your finest woman. Before I dive into the details, I strongly recommend you have a good sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence because it will certainly get their attention.

• ” You look like you intimidate a lot of men. I’m going to tell you this baby, I’m not imtimadated by you, so were going to make this sweet and easy, you give me your number, and i’ll offer you the best possible experience your mind can imgine.”
• “Excuse me, I dont want to seem rude but it looks like a booger is hanging out your nose. By the way, I’m Hajji, whats your name?
• If she looks way to confident; ” Excuse me, do you lick balls? This could be a 50/50 situation. She’ll either laugh and start conversating, or look at you like a criminal. Either way, you will take them off guard by asking them this question. Trust me, you got to try it once.

• If your at starbucks or something ordering coffee or something; ” Hey I noticed this grande drink with a bunch of whip cream on top, you better watch out or your going to look like Rosie O’Donald. Haha I’m just kidding, I’m Hajji ,whats your name?