When women go out with their friends, they tend to create this illusion that their out to protect one another interest which means doing everything they can to cock-block on a guy that tries to dance with their friends. Some of the reasons why they choose to cock-block could be because for one, they are insecure of themselves, or use the classic line that “my friend has a boyfriend, therefore, you should back up and allow them to dance amongst themselves even though they are in a environment where there are several single people trying to dance. Usually this is enough for a guy to want to back away, and maybe reevaluate his options for the night. However, with the advice I offer you in this blog, you should be able to utilize the friends of females to get to the woman you want.
Women tend to feel comfortable when a confident guy penetrate their circle. If you approach a group of girls with your target set on a female, and you come of as somewhat timid, it would enable the group to seal you off because “they came to dance amongst themselves”. Once you have your sites on the lady, I would open up a small conversation with the least attractive girl in the group, and would make her feel as special as possible to earn some cheap brownie points within the group. After establishing yourself within the circle of friends, I’ll dance with the girl I initially opened with, and dance 1 song with her.
After the song is over, I’ll walk to the bar to grab a drink, which will give the ladies a short time to talk about how “cute he is” before coming back a bit more relaxed, and target the woman you initially had your eye on, and bring on that A game. Strong word of advice, as we stressed time and time again, use humor to loosen her up so she’ll loosen you up where it counts.
Good Luck!
-Hajji
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