When women go out with their friends, they tend to create this illusion that their out to protect one another interest which means doing everything they can to cock-block on a guy that tries to dance with their friends. Some of the reasons why they choose to cock-block could be because for one, they are insecure of themselves, or use the classic line that “my friend has a boyfriend, therefore, you should back up and allow them to dance amongst themselves even though they are in a environment where there are several single people trying to dance. Usually this is enough for a guy to want to back away, and maybe reevaluate his options for the night. However, with the advice I offer you in this blog, you should be able to utilize the friends of females to get to the woman you want.

Women tend to feel comfortable when a confident guy penetrate their circle. If you approach a group of girls with your target set on a female, and you come of as somewhat timid, it would enable the group to seal you off because “they came to dance amongst themselves”. Once you have your sites on the lady, I would open up a small conversation with the least attractive girl in the group, and would make her feel as special as possible to earn some cheap brownie points within the group. After establishing yourself within the circle of friends, I’ll dance with the girl I initially opened with, and dance 1 song with her.
After the song is over, I’ll walk to the bar to grab a drink, which will give the ladies a short time to talk about how “cute he is” before coming back a bit more relaxed, and target the woman you initially had your eye on, and bring on that A game. Strong word of advice, as we stressed time and time again, use humor to loosen her up so she’ll loosen you up where it counts.
Good Luck!

-Hajji

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Yes and no. Here’s why, first the ‘bad news’. Yes, definitely helps to know how to dance. According to many women there is a perception that the way a guy dances is an extension of the way a guy is in bed. That said whether that perception is true or not does not matter when it comes down to it.

The good news is that the most important thing when you’re dancing at a nightclub is not sex directly. Nope, its whether or not you’re being perceived as someone who is fun to be around. The most attractive guy in a club is the guy who is just out there having a good time, with a positive attitude. You’ll notice that when you dance to music that you know and enjoy people, girls in particular notice that and appreciate your confidence and comfort in the situation.

Bottom-line, I’ll say that knowing how to dance or at least, staying on rhythm is important, but if you have a time dancing to the latest moves I will say, at least having positive outlook and attitude is a huge difference maker and will separate yourself from the other guys in the club that fight huge dancing demons.

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To sum it up in one word, humor. I’m a huge fan of opening up the conversation with humor while dancing because bringing humor into the situation is a complete, total icebreaker to awkwardness you might have between yourself and your target. When you’re just dancing things can get awkward because a lot of times if you dance with somebody and you really don’t have much to talk about it can be kind of awkward for a second, you know, like “OK, where do we go now?” like “what’s next?”.

However if you’re kind of funny and you say a few jokes then your target will soften up, put her shield down and enjoy your company and more importantly enjoy you as an individual. The best part about that is that you don’t have to be the funniest guy in the world, you can use a lot of humor that deals with environment that you’re in. For instance you can point to someone and say something like, “Hey, look at that guy, he really know how to move right?” pointing at someone dancing kind of awkwardly or you can slightly neg your target by saying someting like “yeah girl, you got more moves than what I expected, you can teach me a thing or two” because everyone is self conscious about how they dance.

Using humor can soften up the situation to a state where you can start talking to her and engaging her with more standard game. Using humor while dancing makes it a lot easier to esclate a verbal conversation after you move her off the dance floor.

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